The Unpopular Thread

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Do you feel unpopular?

  • Totally, so glad someone understands.

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • No, but depends.

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • Sometimes, but not always. I'm so popular...

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • Never ever...Don't dare ask me that!

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • A bit shy to say...

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • Other (if there is, lol)

    Votes: 5 33.3%

  • Total voters
    15
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Gracie_14

Guest
#21
Personally, I feel I need to be popular to be accepted...It's been that way ever since my school days.
I'm trying to work on it... :/
 
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jbrooks5912

Guest
#22
Personally, I feel I need to be popular to be accepted...It's been that way ever since my school days.
I'm trying to work on it... :/
Youre accepted by God right? That means you are already popular 😁
 
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jbrooks5912

Guest
#23
HEY GET THIS!!! Lol

If you are unpopular, you must be doing SOMETHING right because yeah lol a hater gorna hate, but a true friend sticks closer than a brother. 😁🙃😆😆😏
 
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Gracie_14

Guest
#25
HEY GET THIS!!! Lol

If you are unpopular, you must be doing SOMETHING right because yeah lol a hater gorna hate, but a true friend sticks closer than a brother. 😁🙃😆😆😏
Another goood pint...thank you sooo much!
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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#27
Yeah, I see you joke around with quite a few fellow peeps here and it's quite jealous-provoking...:sneaky:

I mean, you actually seem to have close friends that know who you are and can actually relate to you...which is awesome.
Don't be discouraged, Gracie. I have a goofy sense of humor that sometimes gets me in trouble.

What people don't see as much are things like some people taking parts of my messages out of context, sending them on to others, and making sure what I say looks as bad as possible, and yes, it hurts.

I have friends here, but I've bumped heads with plenty of people, too, and I understand. We all have differences and opinions.

With anything good comes a lot of heartache as well.

Friendships take a lot of time, commitment, and working through disagreements. Some of my best friends here have also stood up to me the most.

Don't give up, Gracie, keep trying. I already see you as a friend, and it's great to see you posting and writing threads.😘
 
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jbrooks5912

Guest
#28
But honestly, who needs world fame when our fame is in HEAVEN remember we arw NOT of this world. Therefor yeah lol u get it right?
 
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Gracie_14

Guest
#29
Don't be discouraged, Gracie. I have a goofy sense of humor that sometimes gets me in trouble.

What people don't see as much are things like some people taking parts of my messages out of context, sending them on to others, and making sure what I say looks as bad as possible, and yes, it hurts.

I have friends here, but I've bumped heads with plenty of people, too, and I understand. We all have differences and opinions.

With anything good comes a lot of heartache as well.

Friendships take a lot of time, commitment, and working through disagreements. Some of my best friends here have also stood up to me the most.

Don't give up, Gracie, keep trying. I already see you as a friend, and it's great to see you posting and writing threads.😘
Awwww, Kim...this is awesome. Thank you. It's interesting though...some friendships can form overnight...while others do take time. And, of course, there has to be diversity...we're all unique, different people. That's why we need each other.

Thank you for the words of encouragement. Hope to be one to you too, Kim :)
 
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Gracie_14

Guest
#30
But honestly, who needs world fame when our fame is in HEAVEN remember we arw NOT of this world. Therefor yeah lol u get it right?
Your posts are awesome. It's so good to see a new member posting like you do!

God bless you :)
 
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jbrooks5912

Guest
#32
You all may not lioe Michael Jackson but honestly read the lyrica to his song Why You Wanna Trip On Me
 
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jbrooks5912

Guest
#33
Your posts are awesome. It's so good to see a new member posting like you do!

God bless you :)
Secondly i am different so that is what i bring is difference its the same at work and they see it.

Why should i be worldly when God says be my child br not as the world sees you but by how i see you.

Amen?
 

Mel85

Daughter of the True King
Mar 28, 2018
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#34
Personally, I feel I need to be popular to be accepted...It's been that way ever since my school days.
I'm trying to work on it... :/
Aw sweetheart, when you get to my age, popularity won’t matter lol well for me it doesn’t, I take each day as if it were my last and focus on what really matters to me; God, family, and people, oh and puppies 😊

Please don’t feel the need to be pressured by society to “fit in” because we are not defined by how the world operates but we are defined by how God see’s us and Christ within us ❤️
 
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jbrooks5912

Guest
#35
Aw sweetheart, when you get to my age, popularity won’t matter lol well for me it doesn’t, I take each day as if it were my last and focus on what really matters to me; God, family, and people, oh and puppies 😊

Please don’t feel the need to be pressured by society to “fit in” because we are not defined by how the world operates but we are defined by how God see’s us and Christ within us ❤️
And my friend this post says it ALL!!! Greatet is HE who is He? GOD!! That is inside of me than he who is living in the what? World.

"Bows gracefully" very good grasshopper you have officially earned the black belt of knowledge 🙃 Yep goodball is i and goofball i be in Heaven!
 
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jbrooks5912

Guest
#37
Many think it is ok to push you aside. Expecially when they think that they are better than you. Sole even say you are not alloud in Hevean because you do no fit their lifestyle. However God is the one who approves people in Heaven not human beings. So why do people think theu can do this? Because they feel they own God and His creation.
 

BruceWayne

Senior Member
Aug 7, 2013
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Gotham City
#38
I'm basically the most popular person on this site, so I can't relate. :sneaky:

:ROFL: But no I'm not & honestly I don't give it much thought. As I've gotten older, it's something I care about less & less. Kind of a quality over quantity thing. You enjoy the close friendships & hardly worry about the rest.

As far as posting, just do you. Post what interests you; engage when you feel like it. There will pretty much always be at least one person that finds what you post to be relatable in some way. We're all just here trying to keep each other entertained at the end of the day.
 
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jbrooks5912

Guest
#39
Honestly family think of this, people judge you by what you do right? Then push you away for soing something right. Why is that?

They are very insecure about themselves. Just like those pharasees who demandes JEsus to be crucified.

THey were all insecure because they wanted signs and wonders. They failed to see what was infront of them, God Himself in the flesh.

Lol its funny because when the earth shook and the temple torn lpl then they were like little ants on a ant hill saying "what have we done what have we done" lol naw jp but they were confused as all get out.
 

Jimbone

Senior Member
Aug 22, 2014
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#40
I voted "other" because I've always been completely indifferent to "popularity", I just never cared or thought about it really. Then again you have to understand I was the guy who's motto was, excuse this but I'm using it just to make a point, "I don't give a f#$%", I guess it kind of make sense, also leaves no wonder how I ended up in jail multiple times. Now I only want to glorify God in any and every way I can, still NO worry about "popularity", but I do care how people see me behave now, I WANT to represent Jesus the best I can.