Is dating and marrying a younger man ungodly?

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Miu

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What does the bible say (if it does) about women marrying younger men?
 

Poinsetta

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You can go to jail for marrying younger people? Under age.
 

cinder

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What does the bible say (if it does) about women marrying younger men?
It doesn't directly address the question (assuming you're talking about someone who is an adult and old enough to consider marriage and decide to marry and all that). But keep in mind that when the Bible was written there would also be few instances of a woman marrying a younger man just because of the cultural considerations. So there's nothing inherently ungodly in marrying someone younger, but as in everything else in life use wisdom, seek the Lord, and be honest with yourself about the challenges you might be up against before rushing into a commitment.
 

Dino246

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The Bible does mention at least one instance where a woman was not given to a younger man, but this was a case of Levirate marriage (Genesis 38) and nothing is said about the rightness or wrongness of the age difference.

A younger woman marrying an older man is convention, not a rule of any kind. It likely stems from the fact that females generally mature physically at an earlier age than males, so young females on the lookout are naturally looking to slightly older males.

I'm curious what prompted the OP question.
 
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Miri

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It’s best if he is a millionaire and very very old! Lol
 

Ahwatukee

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What does the bible say (if it does) about women marrying younger men?
Greetings Miu,

Regarding age differences, do you remember the story of Ruth and Boaz?

"Then Boaz said, “May the LORD bless you, my daughter. You have shown more kindness now than before, because you have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor."
 

melita916

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I haven’t come across any Scripture that says it is wrong for a woman to marry a younger man. I assume we are talking of people of legal age.

Some may frown upon a big age difference.
 

p_rehbein

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WANTED:

OLD WOMAN.........REALLY OLD WOMAN WHO OWNS A FARM WITH A CATFISH POND, A PICK UP TRUCK AND A BASS BOAT.............(post pics of the Boat please)
 

TamLynn

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Are you thinking of a specific age difference? Or just younger in general?
 

Subhumanoidal

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What does the bible say (if it does) about women marrying younger men?
Ungodly, no. But it seems there comes a point where it may be seen as unwise. Especially if one is late teens/early 20s.

But I'm also not sure what cultural differences there may be that can affect the perception as well.
 

tourist

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What does the bible say (if it does) about women marrying younger men?
Regardless of the age difference that bible doesn't specifically address this inquiry. In either case it would not be ungodly but perhaps unwise.