Long post alert and gender sensitive issue.
Some have appealed to the gifts of the Holy spirit to legitimize today's churches and practices. The gifts also ceased in the 1st century when the new covenant set in. All these things ceased because God's appointments and therefore authority that comes with such appointments ceased.
Q. Did women in the 1st century church posses such gifts?
A. No
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Yes
Acts 2
17 “‘And in the last days it shall be, God declares,
that I will pour out my Spirit on all flesh,
and your sons and your
daughters shall prophesy,
and your young men shall see visions,
and your old men shall dream dreams;
18 even on my male servants and
female servants
in those days I will pour out my Spirit, and t
hey shall prophesy.
(ESV, emphasis mine)
Acts 21
8 On the next day we departed and came to Caesarea, and we entered the house of Philip the evangelist, who was one of the seven, and stayed with him. 9 He had
four unmarried daughters, who prophesied.
(ESV, emphasis mine)
So generally, women could not evangelize because the word of God would be of no effect, same thing with self appointed preachers/teachers/evangelists today in these churches. They have not been appointed therefore have no authority from God and whatever they speak is not from God/has no effect.
John 4
39 Many Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman's testimony, “He told me all that I ever did.”
(ESV)
John 20
16 Jesus said to her, “Mary.”
She turned toward him and cried out in Aramaic, “Rabboni!” (which means “Teacher”).
17 Jesus said, “Do not hold on to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father. Go instead to my brothers and tell them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’”
18 Mary Magdalene went to the disciples with the news: “I have seen the Lord!” And she told them that he had said these things to her.
(NIV)
The last group is the least common denominator (spiritually) because these were given authority over one another within the church and also unbelievers in the form of gifts. The apostles had power to do many things, prophesy/evangelize/heal e.t.c but these members could only do one thing for the sake of the rest, one would heal another would prophesy and still another would teach all these so that they can grow together spiritually. The one who prophesies had the authority over others only with that regard, and another had authority to teach so the rest becomes his subordinates to that respect only- and this is how the church was supposed to be. These members had no authority to appoint other people after the departure of the apostles, from that moment on, the only words from authority that are effective are the recorded words and actions of Jesus, the apostles and the 1st century members and it is what we call the bible.
What is your basis for the cessationism in your theory? If you do not believe hierarchies exist, why wouldn't you believe in a church with no hierarchy that still meets?
Acts 13 shows us that the Spirit can speak to believers mere prophets and teachers, and point out men he has called, who then become apostles. These two men were sent out without any evidence that the twelve apostles appointed them to be apostles. We know the the twelve did not appoint Paul. And John, Peter, and James the Lord's brother added nothing to Paul or Barnabas when they went to visit them.
If the Holy Spirit can appoint apostles, why can't he work through the church or those in leadership to appoint elders? Matthew 18, though it is speaking of church discipline, says that whatever you bind on earth shall have already been bound in heaven. The Lord expresses the authority of heaven through Christ's church.