Sabotaging Relationships

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Tommy379

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All those personality types seem like an updated version of astrology.

What's your sign, baby. I'm an aries.
 
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If you found the perfect partner, chances are you would not be their
perfect partner and they would find some fault with you.

If you are looking for perfection, better make sure you are perfect too.
I strongly agree...
 

Solemateleft

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I'm INFJ too, with 95% Introvert score. Sorry to keep buggin you, but I'm just really surprised to see someone with similar traits. I know they're not anything to be proud of, but it's still nice to know that there's someone out there who might actually feel the same way about things.
Cool, and only 1 percent of the population; so far I'm now aware of four of us INFJ's here in CC to include SweetStars and myself...
If I recall my 'I' score was closer to moderate/middle of the road...
I like to joke: I can tolerate engaging amongst/with large groups of people in large doses with moderation...
 

Solemateleft

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You're not bugging me. It's cool when I meet another INFJ. It's said that they're rare, I suppose.
So COOL!!! Nice to meet and know another INFJ!!!
I guess that I am not too surprised that more people with this personality type tend to gravitate to an online CC Forum ... ;)
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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All those personality types seem like an updated version of astrology.

What's your sign, baby. I'm an aries.
Yes, complete with the same kind of guidelines about this type is compatible with these two types but should never date this other type.
 

Tommy379

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Jan 12, 2016
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Yep, yep.
Chat someone up. Figure out you get along with them. Hangout a little. Do some stupid crap with them, that you end up talking about later: "remember that time we almost died?" Then after awhile, you realize you can't live without them. That's all it takes. No special formulas.

No need to match up 4 million different 4 letters, or astrology signs.
 

melita916

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ah lists lol. i had a list of non-negotiables (for example: he loves Jesus), and then i had preferences (tall musician). at one point, i wanted to be married to a full time minister/preacher. i had an idea of my husband and me ministering together. as i grew older, and the idea of being married faded away, the list of preferences grew smaller lol.

but! i'm married to a tall, handsome musician who loves Jesus, and we both minister on the music team at our local assembly. :love: