Boredom brought me here..but it is a good advantage. Bcz i can talk to good christian brothers and sisters and learn new stuffs too. I have friends but i dont have any close friend. I pray to have one some day.
When a close friendship works, it’s an amazing joy. Being with our friends is delightful, fun and reassuring. Our friends challenge and inspire us and make us better, richer people.
An unhealthy friendship is where one person tries to own the other, plus being jealousy & competition.
However much we like our friends, we do not have exclusive rights to them. Our friends must be free to be themselves, and to make new friends as well.
Equality is also really important. Equal relationships are where both sides give the same value to themselves and the other.
An unequal friendship might be where I say or believe, "I’m so good and you’re so stupid," or “I’m so awful and you’re so great for putting up with me.”
But we must be very careful the kind of persons we bring into our lives as close friends.
Even Jesus had some friends that he was closer to than others.
Luke 8:51-52 And when he came to the house, he allowed no one to enter with him, except Peter and John and James, and the father and mother of the child. And all were weeping and mourning for her, but he said, "Do not weep, for she is not dead but sleeping."
Mark 9:2-3 And after six days Jesus took with him Peter and James and John, and led them up a high mountain by themselves. And he was transfigured before them, and his clothes became radiant, intensely white, as no one on earth could bleach them.