You are so right sister, and the answer to this is truly the very glory of our God, at least from my point of view. I think the disconnect comes when we just stop at Gods grace and being saved, being saved is just the very first step, although a completely mind blowing, eye opening, life changing, unlike ANYTHING in life and a true miracle of God step, in an amazing rest of your life long journey. Salvation, being "born again", being truly reconciled to the true and living God, is what "fills us with His Spirit", this is how we obey Him, the ONLY way it's possible for man to obey God is if God indwells us thereby empowering us to see His intentions for us, the purpose for which we were created. This is also why God gets ALL glory for everything.
This is also why Jesus is the only way people can find true peace, He is the only way we can fill the void that being disconnected from God leaves in us. The thing is we don't know this unless we are taught it, but even then we can reject it, and we think we can fill that void in the way that makes sense to us, that is in and by the flesh, and by sight. The thing is the flesh is NEVER satisfied, so the ONLY way to "fix" the real problem in every human being is reconciliation to his Creator, and there is only 1 Way, and it just so happens that Way is also "THE" Truth, and "THE" Life, and no man comes to the Father but by Him. Once you are indwelt by His Holy Spirit this is what will guide you and empower you to seek God first, as you grow in you knowledge and relationship with God, He will put people in your life, and give you opportunities to learn, share, and grow in faith from victories, and even more so from failures and trials in my experience. I also want to say one last thing for encouragement, I believe that the desire to seek, obey, and put God above everything, as you have shared with us here is a very good indication of God working in you, and I pray that God continue to draw you to Himself and turn this fire inside you to know and obey Him into a blazing inferno that shines His glory through you for the world to see, and I pray this in Jesus name. Amen.