What is "into", "like", "flirting", "being serious"?

I have never really understood men. Sometimes I think they flirt, but they say they don't.

Once a man that I loved deeply, just went silent and disappeared when I said in a half shy way that he flirted.... what I meant to say, I think, was that I was flattered.
I am lousy taking a compliment. I can understand a man is into me 5 years too late. And if I think they flirt, they don't .

Men complain that women are not enough straight forward.... why is it that I find men enigmatic?

Sometimes my friend says to me "didn't you notice he likes you?" I had no idea.

Oh course it might be they were never into me in the first place.... and everything was wishful thinking.

So. My question here to all men.... how can I know if you are sincere, when are you just playing, and when don't you give a nickel if I existed or not?

And if some of the women can tell me how to know, or not to know, I would like to hear that, too.

Girl, you got me. there have been several times, I could not tell if a guy was serious or joking. If you find the answer be sure and share.

I have never really understood men. Sometimes I think they flirt, but they say they don't.

Once a man that I loved deeply, just went silent and disappeared when I said in a half shy way that he flirted.... what I meant to say, I think, was that I was flattered.
I am lousy taking a compliment. I can understand a man is into me 5 years too late. And if I think they flirt, they don't .

Men complain that women are not enough straight forward.... why is it that I find men enigmatic?

Sometimes my friend says to me "didn't you notice he likes you?" I had no idea.

Oh course it might be they were never into me in the first place.... and everything was wishful thinking.

So. My question here to all men.... how can I know if you are sincere, when are you just playing, and when don't you give a nickel if I existed or not?

And if some of the women can tell me how to know, or not to know, I would like to hear that, too.

I have never really understood men. Sometimes I think they flirt, but they say they don't.

Once a man that I loved deeply, just went silent and disappeared when I said in a half shy way that he flirted.... what I meant to say, I think, was that I was flattered.
I am lousy taking a compliment. I can understand a man is into me 5 years too late. And if I think they flirt, they don't .

Men complain that women are not enough straight forward.... why is it that I find men enigmatic?

Sometimes my friend says to me "didn't you notice he likes you?" I had no idea.

Oh course it might be they were never into me in the first place.... and everything was wishful thinking.

So. My question here to all men.... how can I know if you are sincere, when are you just playing, and when don't you give a nickel if I existed or not?

And if some of the women can tell me how to know, or not to know, I would like to hear that, too.

If I like you, you will know.

Yes. We are getting married, right?

If I like you, you will know.

Yes. We are getting married, right?

Being married now, I look back and think, "Why did I take things so seriously? Why did I worry about things so much?"

Some men thought i was married cause o talked so comfortably with them and didnt flirt..

They probably didn't noticed too that you were not wearing a wedding ring on your left hand. When I was single that's the first thing that I looked for. Flirting is a good technique to let someone know that they may be interested in you.

I think more women are apt to wear their wedding rings then men..so if i saw a guy...looked for him wearing a ring..id have 50/50 chance in knowing if he was married

I used to wear a wedding ring but it is kind of loose and I don't want to lose it. I can get it sized but the next smaller size would have it a bit too tight. Maybe I can just wear it on my days off from work. It doesn't matter really as I don't flirt and have no desire to do so as I am a happily married man. Now, when I was single that's a different story altogether but only to the occasional woman that I found attractive, took an interest in, and wanted to know more about her. I could take a hint however, and if it was obvious that the feelings were not reciprocated I would quickly lose interest and chalk it up to her loss and my gain.

They have ring inserts that go inside the band to help fit finger..especially great for men with big knuckles but smaller finger base

I have never really understood men. Sometimes I think they flirt, but they say they don't.

Once a man that I loved deeply, just went silent and disappeared when I said in a half shy way that he flirted.... what I meant to say, I think, was that I was flattered.
I am lousy taking a compliment. I can understand a man is into me 5 years too late. And if I think they flirt, they don't .

Men complain that women are not enough straight forward.... why is it that I find men enigmatic?

Sometimes my friend says to me "didn't you notice he likes you?" I had no idea.

Oh course it might be they were never into me in the first place.... and everything was wishful thinking.

So. My question here to all men.... how can I know if you are sincere, when are you just playing, and when don't you give a nickel if I existed or not?

And if some of the women can tell me how to know, or not to know, I would like to hear that, too.