Is church a good place to meet single girls?

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tourist

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Like if I'm a regular at a church and happen to meet a girl that I like and I ask her out. Is it looked down upon to ask out a girl at church? What are your thoughts on this topic?
What is more important to you, meeting and getting to know a girl that you like or not being looked down upon? Why would church members look down at meeting someone at church?
 

Jewel5712

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What is more important to you, meeting and getting to know a girl that you like or not being looked down upon? Why would church members look down at meeting someone at church?
Btw.hiya tourist ;)
 

calibob

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In all my years of going to church i havent had 1 single man to approach me to even say hi..ask me about the weather etc..shy boys!
I met my ex at a bible study, she had a necklace that intreaged me, i asked her about it. She had found out I was a mechanic and asked me to come look at her car...
 

ChandlerFan

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Statistically women in the U.S. have attended church at a higher rate than men for decades. There are several single women and men at my church (of around 250 people). None of them that I know attend church to find a mate. They attend church out of obedience to God for the purpose of worshiping Him collectively with the other Christians they are in community with.
 
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What is more important to you, meeting and getting to know a girl that you like or not being looked down upon? Why would church members look down at meeting someone at church?
I guess it's not good to get into fear, God didn't create fear.