married a pastors daughter and he divorced us

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IvanSR

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I and my wife married in dec/2016 my son was born in july/2017 they filed for divorce four days after his birth I'm still heartbroken my wife is Christian her father is a pastor, yet he isn't acting correctly. He and my mother in law are raising my son as if it was there own my wife who was an amazing wife loving caring completely changed the last time I saw my wife was 3 days after my son was born as we slept with our little boy in the hospital bed. I need all the prayers in the world I was to be reunited with my son unfortunately left with all the bills from the hospital and some I cant afford an attorney i simply must pray for a miracle its been four months since i've seen my baby boy 32153730_1024170051066157_2136773008881090560_n.jpg
 
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IvanSR said:
I and my wife married in dec/2016 my son was born in july/2017 they filed for divorce four days after his birth I'm still heartbroken my wife is Christian her father is a pastor, yet he isn't acting correctly. He and my mother in law are raising my son as if it was there own my wife who was an amazing wife loving caring completely changed the last time I saw my wife was 3 days after my son was born as we slept with our little boy in the hospital bed. I need all the prayers in the world I was to be reunited with my son unfortunately left with all the bills from the hospital and some I cant afford an attorney i simply must pray for a miracle its been four months since i've seen my baby boy View attachment 185084
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Jesus loves you brother, keep hanging in there. Keep trusting in the Lord and keep praying for your child, wife and her family.

Romans 8:28
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

i pray you are reunited with your family in the name of Jesus Christ
 
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IvanSR said:
I and my wife married in dec/2016 my son was born in july/2017 they filed for divorce four days after his birth I'm still heartbroken my wife is Christian her father is a pastor, yet he isn't acting correctly. He and my mother in law are raising my son as if it was there own my wife who was an amazing wife loving caring completely changed the last time I saw my wife was 3 days after my son was born as we slept with our little boy in the hospital bed. I need all the prayers in the world I was to be reunited with my son unfortunately left with all the bills from the hospital and some I cant afford an attorney i simply must pray for a miracle its been four months since i've seen my baby boy View attachment 185084
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Mark 11:22-24 "Have faith in God," He will do what is right. If God is powerful enough to take you to heaven, He's powerful enough to have your back on earth.
 
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I’m so sorry to hear about your situation, Ivan. This is a hard thing to go through. I just said a prayer for you and your wife, asking the Lord to bring healing and hope to your marriage. I know it’s not easy right now, but stay strong. May you rest in the assurance the psalmist expressed when he wrote: “In the day of trouble I shall call upon Thee, for Thou wilt answer me” (Psalm 86:7). Sending prayers your way!
 
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IvanSR said:
I and my wife married in dec/2016 my son was born in july/2017 they filed for divorce four days after his birth I'm still heartbroken my wife is Christian her father is a pastor, yet he isn't acting correctly. He and my mother in law are raising my son as if it was there own my wife who was an amazing wife loving caring completely changed the last time I saw my wife was 3 days after my son was born as we slept with our little boy in the hospital bed. I need all the prayers in the world I was to be reunited with my son unfortunately left with all the bills from the hospital and some I cant afford an attorney i simply must pray for a miracle its been four months since i've seen my baby boy View attachment 185084
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First relax. Calm. Go to God. Make a schedule and sleep well. Take care of yourself. It is a marathon, not a sprint. Find a bible based church. Read on the law in your area and file a well thought out motion. You will get heard.

But...and notice in the Bible that every time God says "but", something big happens. But do the things listed first, first. You have to be worthy of him and you are heartbroken. So fix yourself and here is a good place to start. I do the same for me. Blessings brother.
 
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IvanSR

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dc44James said:
First relax. Calm. Go to God. Make a schedule and sleep well. Take care of yourself. It is a marathon, not a sprint. Find a bible based church. Read on the law in your area and file a well thought out motion. You will get heard.

But...and notice in the Bible that every time God says "but", something big happens. But do the things listed first, first. You have to be worthy of him and you are heartbroken. So fix yourself and here is a good place to start. I do the same for me. Blessings brother.
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IvanSR

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Its been a year we already went through the courts, I lost custody because I had an emergency out of the state and missed final orders. I've been focused on fixing my relationship with the Lord above all His been my rock through this
 
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IvanSR said:
I and my wife married in dec/2016 my son was born in july/2017 they filed for divorce four days after his birth I'm still heartbroken my wife is Christian her father is a pastor, yet he isn't acting correctly. He and my mother in law are raising my son as if it was there own my wife who was an amazing wife loving caring completely changed the last time I saw my wife was 3 days after my son was born
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Sounds like your leaving something out? Your girlfriend was obviously pregnant prior to marriage, did you get married because of that? And you wrote that "they" filed for divorce, but they didn't, only your wife could. Surely she
gave you a reason? I'm not accessing blame, just wondering what happened.
 
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