What do Christian women REALLY want in a man...and is it any different than worldly women?

.......... or is that just my imagination?

I have talked to thousands of men and women regarding this topic over the years. For the longest time I thought Christian women wanted the sweetest, most accommodating guy they could find. My observation has taught me worldly women want someone fun, masculine, relaxed, essentially the cool cat. But, what are your observations? Has anything changed in the past 20 years or is that just my imagination?

The problem with these questions is they are too broad. Each person is different and wants different things.
Some people are good at knowing what they want while others think they want one thing but often choose differently.

Really it's a largely irrelevant (and too frequently asked here) question because even if you do determine any answers your answers will A) be skewed by a limited variety of people, and B) since not all women are the same you can't treat all women under the same belief.
Just treat people on an individual basis because blanket concepts about people are meaningless.

Well, I'm asking anyway. It's broad and that's good. But I disagree, it's not all relative as if one woman thinks like a dolphin and another like an aardvark. The fact is human nature does have some constants because God himself program those In the others exist because the fall of Man.

Well when you can put 10 women in a room and they all give identical answers then you may be at the start of something. But this false belief that blanket statements are correct statements will fail you.
We see all sorts of questions like this on the site and every time there are a multitude of answers from the variety of women. That contradictions your false belief.

And thanks for letting me know you're going to ask anyways. Since it's already been posted I wasn't sure. Keep that logic up, it's helped you so far.

PS if you're going to ask people opinions you may want to grow up enough to hear the responses without having a tantrum. Thanks for showing your character flaws early.

I have talked to thousands of men and women regarding this topic over the years. For the longest time I thought Christian women wanted the sweetest, most accommodating guy they could find. My observation has taught me worldly women want someone fun, masculine, relaxed, essentially the cool cat. But, what are your observations? Has anything changed in the past 20 years or is that just my imagination?

Well when you can put 10 women in a room and they all give identical answers then you may be at the start of something. But this false belief that blanket statements are correct statements will fail you.
We see all sorts of questions like this on the site and every time there are a multitude of answers from the variety of women. That contradictions your false belief.

And thanks for letting me know you're going to ask anyways. Since it's already been posted I wasn't sure. Keep that logic up, it's helped you so far.

PS if you're going to ask people opinions you may want to grow up enough to hear the responses without having a tantrum. Thanks for showing your character flaws early.

I have talked to thousands of men and women regarding this topic over the years. For the longest time I thought Christian women wanted the sweetest, most accommodating guy they could find. My observation has taught me worldly women want someone fun, masculine, relaxed, essentially the cool cat. But, what are your observations? Has anything changed in the past 20 years or is that just my imagination?

I listened to a sociology professor on YouTube last year, I can't remember his name. It was a lecture. He stated that women will say they want a man who is seen as sensitive, caring, and agreeable. But women actually are sexually attracted to men who show aggressive traits. The empathetic guy gets friend zoned. The masculine, aggressive guy gets to reproduce.

Thats nature for you bro. Nice guys do finish last. But there is a balance though, you can be a gentleman but not a doormat. The key is the balance

I listened to a sociology professor on YouTube last year, I can't remember his name. It was a lecture. He stated that women will say they want a man who is seen as sensitive, caring, and agreeable. But women actually are sexually attracted to men who show aggressive traits. The empathetic guy gets friend zoned. The masculine, aggressive guy gets to reproduce.

I have talked to thousands of men and women regarding this topic over the years. For the longest time I thought Christian women wanted the sweetest, most accommodating guy they could find. My observation has taught me worldly women want someone fun, masculine, relaxed, essentially the cool cat. But, what are your observations? Has anything changed in the past 20 years or is that just my imagination?

I have talked to thousands of men and women regarding this topic over the years. For the longest time I thought Christian women wanted the sweetest, most accommodating guy they could find. My observation has taught me worldly women want someone fun, masculine, relaxed, essentially the cool cat. But, what are your observations? Has anything changed in the past 20 years or is that just my imagination?