And now I feel like I upset ralph too much. And I feel bad. But we really have to start calling each other on our crap in here. And from even our own "side" we need to do it. But it's kind of difficult when it's become the norm to talk to each other in a bad way.
You know, there was a guy coming in here a few nights ago preaching nihilism! THAT'S who we need to fight strenuously with - not each other.
And we have GOT to stop demanding some perfection of knowledge and doctrine from others that even WE DON'T HAVE! None of us is perfect. None of us has perfect knowledge. We have become way to quick to judge each other all kinds of bad things just because we're at different stages of understanding/growth.
We HAVE to find a way to disagree without the anger and arrogance. We HAVE to. He's coming soon. We have to start calling each other on our crap attitudes towards each other. We have to help each other to a better walk.
And when we get new members, we teach
them to deal with everyone with arrogance because they see
us acting that way. And so we don't help them at all by showing them a good example of maturity in discussions.
I'll shut up now. Ralph, I'm sorry. I love you brother. Do you know I love you? I don't have to agree with you or anyone else on everything. I love you. There has just got to be a way for us to disagree peaceably and stop making every single thing a salvation issue or a reason to beat each other up or call each other unsaved. If we really feel someone is unsaved, our nastiness certainly doesn't show them our Lord.
I'm not talking about those who occasionally come in to start a melee and who we ALL disagree with. I'm talking about how we are with each other who we see every day in here.