Do you find it hard to be "just friends" with people of the opposite sex?

Grown men shouldn't be crushing on teenage girls anyway.. JMO

It is NOT YOUR business. If she refuses to answer, (and she doesn't have to), then stop asking her for an answer. By asking multiple times, you're just harassing her because you want to KNOW why. And as you stated here, you don't have a right OR a NEED to know.. People here go on rants all the time, but no one asks them why, a million times over. You didn't get an answer after asking multiple times, so take her silence as an answer and move on.

If anybody feels harassed by any post on an internet Forum... Well there's always the ignore button. What? None of you have me on ignore?

LaVie I have disagreed with you about many things long before you shipped anybody anywhere. Do you not remember? I have always disagreed especially strongly with you whenever you painted a large group of people with your very broad-brush.

Jerry, are u tryin' ta start WW3? lol

Thank you for your kind words, but I am not interested in him at all. The man I marry will be a man who reads books. I am a great reader and I could never fall in love with a man who is not a reader. This is a nonegotiable with me. I must have a reader so we can talk about books.

Jerry, are u tryin' ta start WW3? lol

Seeing how you are both single and live relatively close by to each other why not ask her out? Let's see, she's single, never been married, attractive, intelligent, well-read, amusing and a bit sarcastic. I believe that you two would hit it off and believe you to be compatible. She is definitely an opportunity of a lifetime for a guy that's interested and willing to take a chance.

Absolutely not. He is a bully. I don’t like men who are bullies. I like gentlemen.

You have a habit of banishing yourself. It is not long enough since your last banishment. Too bad you are a well known member here now and Lynx will miss you, he is probably crushing on you but too proud to admit it. The forum will be boring without you. Your opinion matter just like others.

I beg to differ. You have harrassed me, incessantly. Not being submissive, I bit back.

I never had a problem with you until I shipped you with Seoul. You have been on my case ever since. Both you and Seoul said I was spreading the rumor that you two are really going out, but I did not say that. Laura Charlotte did. I responded to her by saying, maybe so, or something to that effect.

I have no idea why you exploded like an atomic bomb because I shipped you together (in a SHIPPING thread, no less). Somehow, that made me a villain.

When I had strong, “loud”, and vociferous opinions about a grown man crushing on a teenage girl, I got attacked like I was saying something horrible.

Anyway, I no longer care about posting. I have to get ready for the next school year.

Frankly, I am astonished that you are a Tennessean. Most southern men I know are gentlemen.

Absolutely not. He is a bully. I don’t like men who are bullies. I like gentlemen.

Seoulsearch is a good catch too. Can't see why he would be mad at you for arranging that shipment.

Where is Seoulsearch? Ain’t seen her in forever and a day.

I'm on a hunger strike until she returns.

Then she needs to come back from where she at. We can’t have you dyin’ on us😛.

Miss Kim😲, you come back now, you hear! (Loosely based on the sayings of Jed Clampett, Beverly Hillbillies)

What would you do if you fell in love with a man and your friendship with this guy made your lover insecure? Would you sever ties with your friend or with your lover?