Read that verse again. It says that it's the father's will that not any be lost. It's also his will that all be saved, but we know that his will can be thwarted by man's will.
Now this is the will of the one who sent me: that everyone whom he has given me, I would not lose any of them, but raise them up on the last day. John 6:39
Okay here's my next thought on this.
I've been thinking about this and this Scripture came to my mind:
Philippians 2:
12Therefore, my beloved,
as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling,
13for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.
So in this Scripture we know for certain it's about believers because it says my beloved and it also tells us they have obeyed in the past. Now as I read this on the surface it appears that it's up to the person to follow God and to a degree I believe it is, but even deeper we see v13 tells us that it's God who is working in us: both the will and also the work itself.
Like my friend
@mailmandan points out in his posts there are
descriptive and
prescriptive passages. And where we don't have a solid understanding of the power of the gospel and what Christ is working in us. We can read into Scripture thinking that we have to figure out how to make things happen instead of going back to the cross where God set us free to follow Him. Our design is actually to follow Christ. It's the enemy who blinds the minds of men.
I believe at the core of this thinking is a deeply flawed understanding of repentance. If we believe repentance is only about seeing our sin, repentance only comes into affect in our struggles instead of living a life of repentance. But if we believe repentance is about being continually tweaked - similar to a GPS - so that we can head into our desired direction repentance takes on a whole new meaning.
What is our mutual desired direction? Well God says that His purpose from the foundation of the world is that we would be conformed into the Image of His Son. So we know this is His purpose for our lives.
Romans 8:29 For those whom he foreknew he also
predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.
Now as a Christian, the entire name of being a Christian is to
follow Christ, but even deeper to know Him and be like Him. In fact, that's what eternal life is:
John 17:3 And this is eternal life,
that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.
Okay so in Romans 8:29 we see that God is conforming us to be like Him, but what does that look like?
Romans 8:30 And those whom he
predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also
justified, and those whom he justified he also
glorified.
Now here's how I see this Scripture and we may disagree here, but this to me is a promise, but it's a promise that has already been accomplished. We are simply discovering what it looks like. Because on the cross Jesus predestined us to be justified and glorified to be a brother of Jesus.
Of course, this takes us to our mutual desired direction, do we desire what God desires for us? This is where renewing of the mind comes into play. Our mind is being renewed to the goodness and kindness of God. And as our mind is renewed to His goodness, we begin to desire what He desires. We want to be conformed into His image and we want His will for our life.
And in the places we don't desire it, well that's simply an invitation to discover the kindness of God at a higher level. And this is where the good news of God comes into play. He woos us with His love so that even though we are free, like Paul we call ourselves slaves of love. But it's something we do willingly and freely because we know His ways are better than anything else we could ever desire for ourselves. And I believe this is the beautiful journey of discovering Christ.