Its not always easy when you move forward with GOD, the attacts come, persecution, and struggles. I practice daily to give my life and will over to GOD, since he is in control. At times I face the same question is this how its gonna be serving GOD instead of I would evently face that issue one way or another but I don't have to do it alone. As for your daughter, I have two and they are teenagers now. And my oldest one struggles with outbusrst at times and wanting to run away and leave the house at night, and I would fight her and tell her no and that something bad may happend. Because she was kidnapped at 12. So I became a very controlling mother and worried that I would lose her. One day, I just said GOD I cannot stop her, and I put her in your hands and watch over her. Then I turned to her and said so you are gonna go out and not come home O.K. 3 rules, no guys, no drinking or drugs, and be home by dark. Then I told her see you later. And that I love her and the decision was hers. I had victory. She never left that night, she was at peace, and treated everyone with love that night. I cried and thanked GOD for giving me the wisdom to handle it as a parent and an adult. What I learned was the greatest thing, I don't have control, and she is preparing to be an adult and has to make her own choices to continue to grow, And that GOD helped me there and then through it.