If only we could have had a picture of the virtuous woman's husband. It does not sound like he was controlling in any way, and probably nourished her with his love so that it brought out her virtues and capabilities. He allowed her to work (buying a field), and allowed her to spend money on rich clothing.
We do see that her husband trusted her completely, and must have had great qualities of his own since he was well known in the gates and was an elder.
What seems funny to me is that he "sat" around in the gates, and it looks like she did all the work at home. From buying a field, to planting it, to bringing in food from afar, all while she had to raise her children, sew their clothes and weave linen to sell. She brought in all the money? It tires me to even think of it.
Maybe I just don't want to be quite that virtuous.
(I do know it is a parable, just could not help but have some fun with it)