A sin is a sin,and it is all the flesh,which the Bible says that all have sinned,and come short of the glory of God,and if you break the least of the commandments then you broke them all,which thankfully Jesus' blood cleanses us of all sins,and makes all of us clean on the same level,and when the Jews cast a women at Jesus' feet,because she was caught in the act of adultery,and wanted to stone her,Jesus said,he that is without sin cast the first stone,which they all dropped their stones and left,and Jesus said,where are your accusers,has no man condemned you,and she said,no my Lord,neither do I condemn you,now go and sin no more.
Which I say this because no matter what you did is no more worse than what any of us did,for all sin is unrighteousness,and if you break the least of the commandments,you broke them all,and before any of us came to Christ,we all had a form of sexual perversion,even if it was not so openly displayed,for that is one of the big temptations that we will be tempted with before we came to Christ,and one of the big temptations that will hit us after we come to Christ,sexual perversion.
Which Jesus said if you lust after a woman it is the same as if you committed the act.
Which I say this for we should not think we are such bad people,that we do not deserve God's love,for we are all sinners and come short of the glory of God,talking to anybody that would think they are a bad person,and be down on their self,in other words we should not get down on our self for our actions,for it was our flesh directing us,and in the flesh dwells no good thing,so we were only going by that nature,and Jesus said forgive them Father,for they know not what they do.
God said we are all sinners,and deserving of salvation,no matter what we did,if we acknowledge the truth,and we were all perverted in one way or another before we came to Christ,and Paul was terrible before he came to Christ,which he said he persecuted the Church,and wasted it,and Peter had a problem for about 14 years of prejudice,until Paul got in his face and told him to stop it,and king David did things the LORD was not pleased with,and king Solomon,David's Son,had 300 wives,and 700 concubines,talking about sexual perversion,that God said He was not pleased with him.
But the point is,all are sinners and come short of the glory of God,and if you break the least of the commandments,you broke them all,so we are all bad people before we come to God,but thankfully we can escape the flesh by Jesus Christ,which if we go along with the flesh,in that environment,we might enjoy it,but there is sometimes bad consequences in dealing with people who also go by the flesh,for the people in the flesh dealing with each other might not always be a good situation,where in the Spirit it will always be a good situation,which also by the Spirit it extends beyond this world,which is a big plus,where the flesh will cease its actions once it perishes.