Recent content by Lanolin

Yello. Ha hordes of suitors. You just need one very persistent one. The one you block and put on the DO NOT CALL list. Or ignore. If you do happen to see them IRL you just do what Dionne Warwick did - walk on by. If you can't escape do the whole 'I've got to go now' and don't need to explain...

At midnight am fast asleep but I wake up at 3am and then confess. Sorry I'm late God. Also, I expect God to read everything I write because, I can't talk for that long.

Who me? Or Seoul - the OP who instigates all these questions. She's a gem. I'd love to read a book of Christian Advice from Aunty Seoulsearch.

Hold a conversation at the same time as listening to Waze while driving.

I think they (ministers) do support marriages when they officiate at weddings though. But they probably stay out of the courtship stages. I do know some churches do what they call pre-marital counselling. But thats only for engaged couples. When my friend got married in church, I think she...

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My old boss always used to ask me 'Are you winning'? I never knew what to say (obviously I was supposed to say YES) I thought he was asking me if I play lotto or something.

I'm not a doctor, but I don't feel I really need to be explaining or mansplaining hormones to grown adults.

It's called HRT. Look it up

yea you said 'healthy marriage' Don't assume people are healthy ALL the time. Everyone can fall sick once in a while, also, when people age, menopause happens. Its just not easy for women after this. That's why some women need to take hormones. Do you not know about this?

Well its marriage you honor your vows, if you make them. In sickness AND in health Just because some people get sick and don't want to have sex doesn't mean they ought to be ditched or be labelled a sinner. Get real.

Nowadays, pre adolescents are prescribed puberty blockers, because it is happening WAY too young. Like, females can start menstruating at 9 years old. Before they can even handle having a baby. Explain that.

I also remember in the bad old days, men were prescribed viagra. And women were prescribed birth control. yea I don't understand how that ever worked.

Yea open marriages exist. Consent needs to be on both sides, that's why it's taught to adolescents these days. Before in the bad old days, people were clueless about it and thought it had to happen even if they didn't want it to.

yea it's a bit worrying, though I understand sex-less marriages AFTER you've had children. You'd be like, it's so exhausting, I don't want to be doing that again. But we share a house, so it's just easier to stay.