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    Of Mice, Moles, and Men (Ladies Too!) Tell Us About YOUR Animal Encounters -- Pets, Pests, And Everything In-Between!

    Yes it was maybe a half mile from our house. And yes it's rural. I am so terrified of snakes! In August we often see quite a few rattlesnakes dead on the road.
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    Of Mice, Moles, and Men (Ladies Too!) Tell Us About YOUR Animal Encounters -- Pets, Pests, And Everything In-Between!

    This morning my sister and I were taking a walk and suddenly I saw a copperhead on the side of the road! I grabbed my sis and kinda screamed. I thought it was alive but upon further inspection we saw just its head was run over and it was dead. First snake of the season that I've seen!
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    Is This a Red Flag??

    I definitely see your point! I took it that he was trying to be sensitive to my feelings when he brought it up... Something I asked him was if all his 9 breakups were him or them. He said it was him, because when it came to a certain point he couldn't trust people. But he said God had since...
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    Is This a Red Flag??

    I'm sure it was nothing inappropriate like that. And yes you're correct it was not a steady dating relationship, we were just getting to know each other. I wouldn't have expected him to immediately delete any photos of exes I don't think... it actually wasn't a big deal to me until my sister...
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    Is This a Red Flag??

    So it was at the very beginning of our relationship and we were unofficial... he mentioned me looking thru his pics sometime and warned me of the pics of his exes. He asked if I'd be okay seeing those too. I told him I didn't mind...but maybe I did.
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    Through The Words Of Christ I Learned Happiness Even With My Tough Life

    Hi! I'm sorry for the tough times you've had. Remember that true joy is only found in Jesus. Anything else is temporary and won't last cuz it's not on the right foundation.
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    Wanting to be single for the rest of my life

    I understand a little bit. I've dated enough and I've gotten my heart broke enough that it makes me REALLY cautious... But I still desire marriage and a family of my own! So I haven't given up I guess...but I want it to be totally God's leading. I think it's so important to come to the place...
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    Is This a Red Flag??

    That's KINDA how it seemed. If I'm being honest.
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    Is This a Red Flag??

    You know, in retrospect, maybe he didn't say he had all the pics, but that all the girls were on there. It just sounded like he didn't delete any. It is possible that he had them in a separate file or album, I don't know. One of my guy friends told me this guy showed him a pic of his last...
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    Is This a Red Flag??

    I'm curious of your opinions on this: in one of my relationships the guy I was getting to know told me he had all the pics of his former girlfriends in his phone gallery still. When I mentioned this to my sister she said "That's a red flag!" I wasn't sure what to think. I didn't really like...
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    Hey everyone!

    Welcome Rebecca89! Definitely get involved in the conversations in the forums. Looking forward to getting to know you!
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    Let's Make the Singles Forum Spicy Again!! (What Are Your Favorite Spicy Foods/Everyday Things?)

    Oh I tried a hot sauce at a Jamaican restaurant recently and oh boy that was intense!
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    Let's Make the Singles Forum Spicy Again!! (What Are Your Favorite Spicy Foods/Everyday Things?)

    I love spice, but not so much heat that you don't notice the flavor. I love using crushed red pepper and cayenne powder. Wasabi is delicious too. And sriracha. @seoulsearch you're really making me want to try the Nashville hot chicken! I go to Nashville fairly often and have never had it lol...
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    TRUE GRIT

    Yes I was thinking about mentioning the persecutions of the Anabaptists by Calvin, Luther, and Zwingli. The Anabaptists challenged those churches' belief in infant baptism and were severely persecuted by the state churches.