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Yes I get notifications about it. I hope you feel better and recover soon. I will pray for you and your recovery.

His parents don’t seem to really care much about the infidelity as in the same thing happened to his mom by his dad which added to the worthlessness feeling.

Thanks for the advice but no what is the 12 step ?

I let go last week but having second thought but trying to stay strong and not go back. Not sure what the next steps should be.

I did breakup last week but hard to stay away after all the apologies the first couple of days. I don’t want to feel envy if I hear he is dating the next girl. What do I do ?

I’ll be honest, I used to be extremely confident but now I just keep second guessing myself. I just left but I remember all the good times we had and I miss them and I don’t want to feel jealousy if he moves on to another I want to not care but it’s hard when you’ve loved someone for so long. I...

I just left actually but still having second thoughts because I’m only human.

How do I start feeling angry instead of hopelessness and unworthiness ?

Even though your partner might be great in every other way I still shouldn’t give another chance ? I’m afraid there won’t be anyone else ?

Thank you for replying. I’m just losing hope as in there isn’t any better men out there. It seems like they all cheat from what I have heard. I also feel ashamed since I held a grudge and didn’t totally forgive and let go because it was always in the back of my mind. Maybe if I would have...

Great feedback. Won’t be just get away with it and what he has done and go to the next girl ? Wouldn’t that be the easier way ?

Should I forgive ? So people not make mistake and it is not right for me to forgive ?

He is the one that pursued me first and started talking about wanting to get married. Cheating I mean sex and sexual flirty texting a couple of others

Do you think he would take marriage more seriously because it’s mentioned in the Bible? Maybe I can be better so that he won’t have to talk to other girls again ?

But what if I let him go and he doesn’t do it to the next person or becomes a prince for the next one. What if he changes after marriage because marriage is the only thing mentioned in the Bible. ?