Homosexuality

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I am a struggling homosexual and this has really spoken to me. I feel that now I've given my life to God, I have the power to forgive men and try once more to find "the right guy" I feel there is hope, and that out there in the world somewhere, he's waiting. And, recently an old crush of mine (before I came out) told me he loved me. (I feel a quickening pace i my heart when I see him and can't really place it. but It could be the unfamiliar desire for a man) I'm guessing, I can try with him. Mostly because he's max. And max doesn't hurt people. So thanks for this message and thanks for uncovering buried hope. I feel that I can look to max and see, FINALLY, if a man could be right for me.
 
JackieParz said:
I do not think homosexuality is a sin. Not everything in the Bible is true, as it was written by many different people. I know people who are gay and they are definitely not faking it. If God made gay people, I don't see why he would admonish that lifestyle.
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Well, let me ask you this. If a man were to write a book, spoke the words to be written and had multiple people write them down, would you not consider him to be the author of this? This is how we as Christians feel about the Bible. That it's author was the Holy Spirit, who through the Prophets and the Apostles wrote all that we treasure so much. When it comes to the bible though, it's not a collection where you can just pick and choose what you like, it's a matter of either accepting it as a whole or rejecting it as a whole. To just say that it's false because you don't like what it says is just foolish.

As for the comment on God making people gay, the bible tells us this is NOT true. Look at the Lord's prayer it says "Lead us not into temptation" God is NOT the tempter, and will not try and make us stumble, but he will "deliver us from evil" because he loves us. I understand that many homosexual people have felt like that for so long, and since they were young. However, that doesn't make it a natural part of life. As a Christian, I believe that they have been attacked by Satan (Which means The Tempter) and that he planted a bad seed in their hearts when they were young, and this seed grew into something big because it was not properly taken care of, and because it has been there so long I bet it does feel natural. I can honestly understand how they feel this is something natural, however I can not agree with them on that, because the bible defines it differently.
 
Pay-Pay said:
I am a struggling homosexual and this has really spoken to me. I feel that now I've given my life to God, I have the power to forgive men and try once more to find "the right guy" I feel there is hope, and that out there in the world somewhere, he's waiting. And, recently an old crush of mine (before I came out) told me he loved me. (I feel a quickening pace i my heart when I see him and can't really place it. but It could be the unfamiliar desire for a man) I'm guessing, I can try with him. Mostly because he's max. And max doesn't hurt people. So thanks for this message and thanks for uncovering buried hope. I feel that I can look to max and see, FINALLY, if a man could be right for me.
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That's seriously beautiful. and, i am not trying to be mean, but being attracted to girls is just like lust, like a girl has for a guy, but what you have is love. and love is stronger than lust, because our God is love.
 
XrisSimo said:
hahaha, girls must love you.
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yep I have the job I do the cooking and cleaning and if course give the girls my live it more than just giving them attention when they want like some people think yes justcuz im talking about you. You must have great relationship skills
 
wolfywolfs said:
yep I have the job I do the cooking and cleaning and if course give the girls my live it more than just giving them attention when they want like some people think yes justcuz im talking about you. You must have great relationship skills
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Quoting XrisSimo and then using it to take it out on me, well that's a new one. Who exactly has the great relationship skills? I didn't get it...
 
And basically you thought acting gay was a great idea and as you said girls just need attention I based the joke of that
 
wolfywolfs said:
And basically you thought acting gay was a great idea and as you said girls just need attention I based the joke of that
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I never said acting gay was a great idea. No offense, but you should work on your act.
 
Justcuz said:
I never said acting gay was a great idea. No offense, but you should work on your act.
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really you seem to admire that acting gay is a gd way to get girls so what is it a good thing or bad thing no offense but you should really work on what you say so I know what you mean
 
wolfywolfs said:
really you seem to admire that acting gay is a gd way to get girls so what is it a good thing or bad thing no offense but you should really work on what you say so I know what you mean
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i made it clear enough bro
 
Justcuz said:
.. disappoint them how?
If a straight guy pretends to be gay to be populair with girls (God forbid),
goes shopping with them, comments them on their clothes, goes to see chick flicks with them etc,
but admits to be really straight after a while, shouldn't that girl be the more happy?
That is... if that guy continues to pay as much attention to her as a gay guy would do.

Btw, i don't need to pretend to be gay to be populair,
i would just give the girl the attention she needs and deserves.
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Clearly here you think its not a bad idea and could work as a girl in your eyes would just forget and forgive so where exactly did you say its a bad stupid thing to do here you think it will work the only thing you state is that you don't act gay if you think its stupid then just say so next time simple really. And also I pretty much sure that other people besides me thought that you think acting gay is a good idea
 
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wolfywolfs said:
Clearly here you think its not a bad idea and could work as a girl in your eyes would just forget and forgive so where exactly did you say its a bad stupid thing to do here you think it will work the only thing you state is that you don't act gay if you think its stupid then just say so next time simple really. And also I pretty much sure that other people besides me thought that you think acting gay is a good idea
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I dont want to be rude here, but Justcuz actually wrote that he doesnt need to be gay to catch girls attention, he wasnt trying to say that pretending to be gay was a good thing. And as for you WolfDude, you cook? that must be awesome for your girlfriend/wife
 
wolfywolfs said:
Clearly here you think its not a bad idea and could work as a girl in your eyes would just forget and forgive so where exactly did you say its a bad stupid thing to do here you think it will work the only thing you state is that you don't act gay if you think its stupid then just say so next time simple really. And also I pretty much sure that other people besides me thought that you think acting gay is a good idea
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I really think this thread has gone off-topic, Lol. That being said, I took Justcuz's original post on this as more of a joke rather than an actual opinion.

So, can we get back on topic then?
 
XrisSimo said:
I dont want to be rude here, but Justcuz actually wrote that he doesnt need to be gay to catch girls attention, he wasnt trying to say that pretending to be gay was a good thing. And as for you WolfDude, you cook? that must be awesome for your girlfriend/wife
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I don't have a girlfriend anymore she died as for justcuz I know he said he doesnt need to be but its the fact he gone on and said you can get close to a woman go shopping with her etc then say your straight and the woman will be happy that your not gay where exactly is he sayings that a bad idea or stupid sounds like he planned it out how it could work making it a workable idea
 
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