Which would b a great 1st date?

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Which would u rather do on a 1st date?

  • Candle lit dinner

    Votes: 1 6.7%

  • Take a walk on the beach

    Votes: 2 13.3%

  • Go bowling

    Votes: 1 6.7%

  • Prepare a meal together

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Build a giant sandcastle together

    Votes: 1 6.7%

  • Have a picnic

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Go for a drive

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Go to the zoo

    Votes: 2 13.3%

  • Goof off in the toy section of a store

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • It doesn't matter what u do as long as u both have fun

    Votes: 5 33.3%
  • Total voters
    15
  • Poll closed .
I would most likely take her to a store with lots of mirrors in it so she can see how cute i am from all angles
 
grace said:
Amusement park. A great way to be yourself and have lots of fun laughing together.
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Hehehehe - Grace, if I was to go to the amusement park on a first date...he'd see the 'real me' alright in more ways than one!!!.....I'd be throwing up on virtually every ride....I get motion sickness :(

My ideal first date would be going to a museum or art gallery as it would be nice to know that he took into consideration something that I love to do!!! And I am going on the idea that the man has pursued me and asked me on a date - cos I am 'traditional' that way :) It's amazing when you go and do an activity rather than just a meal that great conversations evolve in between whatever the activity is :)

However, after a first date I am quite sure both our interests would be established and future dates could focus on those. So on future dates maybe I'd arrange something that I know greatly interests him :)....as long as it's not football matches...........or cricket.......or motor racing......or amusement parks......hahahaha - ONLY JOKING!!!!!! I'd give anything a go...because it's what they like...but couldn't promise a life long committment to it....it could be something that they would enjoy more with their male friends!! Vice Versa. hahahaha
 
opulentwoman said:
Hehehehe - Grace, if I was to go to the amusement park on a first date...he'd see the 'real me' alright in more ways than one!!!.....I'd be throwing up on virtually every ride....I get motion sickness :(

My ideal first date would be going to a museum or art gallery as it would be nice to know that he took into consideration something that I love to do!!! And I am going on the idea that the man has pursued me and asked me on a date - cos I am 'traditional' that way :) It's amazing when you go and do an activity rather than just a meal that great conversations evolve in between whatever the activity is :)

However, after a first date I am quite sure both our interests would be established and future dates could focus on those. So on future dates maybe I'd arrange something that I know greatly interests him :)....as long as it's not football matches...........or cricket.......or motor racing......or amusement parks......hahahaha - ONLY JOKING!!!!!! I'd give anything a go...because it's what they like...but couldn't promise a life long committment to it....it could be something that they would enjoy more with their male friends!! Vice Versa. hahahaha
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Well, truth be told , my friend......I might get sick on a few too.....but they have lots of fun stuff to do at the amusement park. The zoo is also a great date. I just like the idea of it being casual and time to talk and walk around etc.

And....your right, a guy that plans a date around what you like is definatly taking the time to pursue you. that is a good thing :)
 
Mini golf is a great date night. No one is good at mini golf and it is fun to laugh at how bad you are.
 
I only go out on dates in the winter. My idea of a great first date is taking a woman out to dinner to a REALLY nice resturant.. im talkin 4 star! We eat together and when its time for the check. I say ... honey. i hate to leave the table for fear i might miss another one of your beautiful smiles.. but i have to pee ... BAD... Then i sneak out the back door get in my car and drive away................ i just got dinner for FREE!!!
 
antmimi2 said:
Mini golf is a great date night. No one is good at mini golf and it is fun to laugh at how bad you are.
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obviously you havent played mini golf with me! Im the tiger woods of mini golf...... thats right....... you heard me right!!!
 
:DCandle Light Dinner would be nice.........
I think going for a drive would be nice also......
Bowling is good also.........................
 
I can't vote in that poll because coffee at Tim Horton's is not on it, which is my favourite first date. I think good advice is to avoid spending too much money on a first date.

Going for a drive is a very bad first date. DO NOT get into a car with a guy until you really, really know him. Even if you didn't meet him on-line. Even if you have mutual friends. My sister met her husband at a Christian organization at a university. She said it was months before she'd get in a car with him because she didn't really know him. And even if you're the one behind the wheel, do not get too secluded with a guy until you know him.

I think church is also a very bad first date. A date is where you get to know another person and church is where you focus on God.
 
I'm going to combine 3 things on your list. For a first date, I would love to date her to the beach more toward night time, when the sun is just starting to set. Before this, we would've cooked together some delicious food that we'd take with us to the beach. We would enjoy our food together while watching the sunset...I love it :).
 
ForeverYours said:
I'm going to combine 3 things on your list. For a first date, I would love to date her to the beach more toward night time, when the sun is just starting to set. Before this, we would've cooked together some delicious food that we'd take with us to the beach. We would enjoy our food together while watching the sunset...I love it :).
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why not just make her cook you some food..... then have her drive you to the beach then you can jump on her back while she carries you onto the sand................... ahh soo romantic
 
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