See your just stuck in a bubble on a one track pony leading by emotional upset
Probably inflicted upon yourself by yourself, unfortunately it's deeply rooted in you, because your love you have for God and how kind he is, can not undermine yourself reasoning, that somehow because God is so nice to you, it has rule out every aspect of what he doesn't do in others, 3 times in a rows you've appealed to morality of Goodness to favour your bias.
No good person really likes to disclose the way in which God does and can pass judgment, but because your always emphasizing points of view on the bases that somehow people who talk in an authoritive way about God are somehow making Goodness looking bad, you then just keep displaying these emotional responses all the time, it's only yourself who is forcing these responses from people in the first place, with your thousands upon thousands of insinuations, that people speaking in an authoritative way, are leading people astray, love is not just kind but it's blind in this case, when you act like this.