I'll need to gently push back on what He Said:... some people decide they love the world more than God
... some people stop listening to the spirit
... whoever denies the lord will be denied by him
“…some people decide they love the world more than God
…some people stop listening to the Spirit
…whoever denies the Lord will be denied by Him”
At face value, that sounds plausible — but contextually, it confuses two categories Scripture keeps distinct:
- Professing believers (those who outwardly identify as Christians but aren’t truly born again), and
- Possessing believers (those truly indwelt by the Spirit).
- True believers are kept by God’s power, not their own willpower.
“Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.” — 1 Peter 1:5 KJV - Those who ‘love the world’ reveal they never truly belonged to God.
“If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” — 1 John 2:15 KJV
John immediately follows that by saying, “They went out from us, but they were not of us…” (v.19). - A true believer can grieve or quench the Spirit (Eph. 4:30; 1 Thess. 5:19) — but not “stop listening” in the sense of total abandonment, because the Spirit Himself ensures their perseverance (Phil. 1:6).
- The statement “whoever denies the Lord will be denied by Him” (cf. Matt. 10:33) applies to those who reject Christ, not to those who momentarily falter in weakness like Peter — who denied Him but was restored (John 21:15–17 KJV).
A regenerate believer may stumble, waver, or experience seasons of weakness — but cannot permanently fall away.
Anyone who permanently abandons Christ shows they never possessed saving faith to begin with.
“They went out from us, but they were not of us…” — 1 John 2:19 KJV
“He that hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.” — Philippians 1:6 KJV
So in short: his statement mixes truth with error. The first two lines misrepresent regeneration by implying the indwelt believer can simply “choose” to walk away from the Spirit. The third line (“whoever denies the Lord…”) rips Jesus’ warning from its salvation context and applies it wrongly to the truly saved.
I’ve noticed that when I’ve tried to correct him in the past, he doesn’t handle constructive criticism well. But Scripture calls us to a higher standard — we’re to “contend earnestly for the faith” (Jude 1:3 KJV) while also being “swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath” (James 1:19 KJV).
A true disciple receives correction with humility, not defensiveness. Proverbs 9:8 KJV reminds us, “Reprove not a scorner, lest he hate thee: rebuke a wise man, and he will love thee.” It’s not about winning arguments but walking in truth and grace.
Grace and Peace
Acts 17:11 (KJV)
“These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.”