The misunderstanding is yours. You read 1 Tim 2:3-4 as though they were intended to be understood in isolation from the other verses.
However, when read as they should be, we can see that in verse 3, by the "our Savior", it is informing that those who actually are in view are only they whose Savior is God ("our Saviour")- with God obviously not the Savior of the those who will not become saved - by which, we can know that only those who will become are those included.
So, the "our", of the "our Saviour", equals the "all" of v4 (and the other "all(s)" in proximity to it), and therefore, those who will not become saved were never intended to be part of the "all", as God is not, nor will ever be their Savior. Hence, impossible for the "all" to mean everyone, instead, the "all" represents all of the elect - or all those who are to become saved - all those of whom God becomes their Savior. V5 continues this with the "for", as it is speaking about Christ being a "mediator between God and men", but a mediator is a mediator only for the saved, not one for everyone: the unsaved have no mediator with God.
[1Ti 2:3-5 KJV]
3 For this [is] good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour;
4 Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.
5 For [there is] one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus;
Well, it seems perverse to believe God hates humanity except for a few elect. I prefer to believe the following:
A biblical hermeneutic or parameters for interpreting the Bible might well begin with the instruction of Paul (1Thes. 5:21) to “Test everything. Hold on to the good.” A truthseeker is guided by the question: What is most true or closest to the truth, especially the Truth of God’s Word? The method for discerning truth employs subjective logic that is made as objective as possible by learning from Scriptural and other truthseekers. As a result of seeking ultimate truth, I have come to value
two NT teachings as key points from which to triangulate or use to guide an interpretation of the Bible, especially problematic statements.
First, God loves and wants to save everyone. Seven Scriptures teaching divine omnilove include: 1John 4:7-12, Rom. 5:8, Matt. 5:44&48, Gal. 5:6 &14, Eph. 3:17b-19, Eph. 5:2 and 1Tim. 2:3-4, which might be deemed the “7 pearls”. Christ died to show God’s love and the possible salvation of all (Rom. 5:6-8) including His enemies (ungodly, atheist, anti-Christ, heretics).
Second, God is just (2Thes. 1:6a, cf. Rom. 3:25-26 & 9:14, Deut. 32:4, Psa. 36:6, Luke 11:42, Rev. 15:3). Explanations of God’s Word should not impugn God’s justice and love for all people (Joel 2:13, John 3:16). This parameter is affirmed in the OT (Psa. 145:17): “The Lord is righteous in all his ways, and holy in all his works.”
Even the wrath of God is an expression of His love and justice. The writer of Hebrews (12:4-11) indicates that divine wrath is intended as discipline for the purpose of teaching people to repent of their hatefulness and faithlessness (PR 3:12, IS 33:14-15 RV 3:19). If a righteous explanation cannot be found for a passage of Scripture purporting to describe God’s will (such as JSH 6:17-24, 8:2&24 & 10:28-40, 11:6-23), then it should be considered as historical or descriptive of what people perceived rather than as pedagogical or prescriptive of God’s nature. Unrighteous rage should not be attributed to God.
This hermeneutic seeks to harmonize disparate Scriptures as taught by Paul (in 1Thes. 5:21), exemplified by Jesus (in MT 4:6-7) and illustrated by the transparent overlays of bodily systems found in some books on anatomy. Considering both sides of an issue or doctrine is called dialectical theology. An interpreter should want to include all true assertions in the picture of reality without making a “Procrustean Body” by cutting off or ignoring parts that do not seem to fit, because the correct understanding must be self-consistent or else God would be tricky
. The whole truth combines parts without sawing!
The Bible says God’s Spirit is love and truth (1JN 4:8 & 5:6), which means all love (agape, RM 6:5-8) in all people is God’s operation, and all truth in all cultures is God’s revelation. Thus, becoming a Christian theist does not mean rejecting what is good and true in one’s pre-Christian experience or culture. When considering two different understandings (thesis A versus antithesis B), the truth may not be either one or the other but rather the proper harmonization of the two. (Both A and B = synthesis C.) For example, the Bible teaches (GN 1:3, JN 1:1-3) that
both the world and inspired words are expressions of God’s Word/Logos, and thus scientific and spiritual truths must be compatible or else God would be tricky. So, while belief that God is love and Jesus is Lord is based upon the biblical revelation, some knowledge also is gleaned from the natural sciences and common sense. This interpretation of reality is influenced by the Bible and utilizes God-given logical thinking where the Bible seems silent, hoping to be guided by the Spirit of Truth (JN 14:17).
Although perfect interpretation and unity may not be attainable by fallible souls, systematic study of Scripture can broaden understanding such as the doctrine of salvation as follows:
God saves sinners who repent (
1Tim. 2:3-4,
Matt. 4:17). Repentance means accepting Jesus as Messiah and Lord (
Acts 16:30-31,
Col. 2:6). God enables all sinners to repent, seek salvation and find the LJC (
1Tim. 2:3-5,
Heb. 11:6). God’s enabling is resistible so souls may choose instead to serve Satan (
Matt. 13:14-15,
John 8:42-44). God’s enabling of volition (
Deut. 30:19) may be called seeking grace (
Eph. 2:8). Souls who choose to reject God/Christ are justly condemned (
Rom. 1:20,
2:5-11). Accepting God’s grace by faith is not a meritorious work (
Rom. 3:21-28,
Eph. 2:8-9). Even loving works motivated by God’s HS manifest faith rather than merit (
Eph. 2:10), because there is no qualitative difference between faith that accepts God’s saving grace at conversion and faith that accepts God’s working grace while walking/living (
John 6:29,
2Cor. 5:7,
Rom. 1:17), but only a quantitative difference as each additional moment passes. The only contradiction comes from those who are spiritually blind (
Matt. 13:15,
2Cor. 4:4,
John 9:41).
The quest for greater Christian unity prompts me to identify the Scripture from which interpretations of GW spring,
and a
Top Ten list of foundational Scriptures in logical order might well be these:
1. Formerly/at first I was without hope of salvation from meaninglessness and death. (Eph. 3:12b)
2. So I sought salvation and found God. (Matt. 7:7, Heb. 11:6b)
3. The loving God who wants all souls to learn the truth about how to be saved. (1Tim. 2:3-4, John 3:16)
4. Which is to believe that Jesus is Christ, whose death atoned for humanity’s sins. (1Tim. 2:5-6)
5. As taught in all inspired Scripture interpreted in light of this Gospel of salvation. (2Tim. 3:15)
6. Such interpretation of GW also teaches how to be godly after being saved. (2Tim. 3:16-17)
7. Which doctrine Jesus summarized as loving God, oneself and everyone else. (Matt. 22:37-40)
8. And which moral maturity Paul termed as the fruit of the Holy Spirit. (Gal. 5:13-23)
9. That requires persevering in saving faith and learning God’s Word. (Matt. 4:4, 10:22)
10. So that we will grant the prayer of Jesus for us to be one in our witness. (John 17:20-23)