I am not following the connections you are making here. How can you say water baptism and receiving the Holy Spirit do not happen at the same time And then cite Acts 2:38 when that text specifically says the hearers should be baptized “so that“ they might receive forgiveness and the Holy Spirit? It seems to me that the whole point of what he is saying is that their response of baptism carries with it the promise of forgiveness and the Holy Spirit. Not sure how you can read that command and take away that the receiving of the Spirit is an entirely separate event or time. Care to elaborate?
also it seems you are emphasizing the NAME a lot. Are you arguing for modalism/Sabellianism?
Note Peter's message in Acts 2:38-39, it indicates that those who repent and submit to water baptism shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. It does not specifically state receiving the Holy Ghost will occur at that exact moment. However, it is a promise that it will occur.
This truth comes to light upon study of all detailed conversion accounts. In each case the promise comes to fruition, yes. But in the timing and ways that fulfill the purposes of God. I'll be happy to share how I've come to this conclusion. But for now please take a look at the scriptures that confirm what is stated in Acts 2:38-39. And, I might add according to the Bible, the truth will always be seen in at least 2-3 scriptures. (Matt. 18:16, 2 Cor. 13:1) Something that is very revealing is all of the accounts actually show the experiences occurring separate from one another.
In the case of the Samaritans, the individuals believe the gospel message and submit to water baptism in the name of Jesus. They do not receive the Holy Ghost right away. However, as promised, days later Peter and John assist them in receiving the Holy Ghost.
The Gentiles believe Peter's message about Jesus and receive the Holy Ghost right away. (Acts 15:8) Afterward they are commanded to be baptized in water in the name of Jesus.
The 12 Ephesians believe Paul's message and submit to water baptism in the name of Jesus. After obedience to that command Paul lays hands on them and they receive the Holy Ghost.
The following is in response to your comment about the name. Actually I've been referencing water baptism scriptures a lot. The emphasis on the name is seen in every detailed account where people are being baptized:
Acts 2:38
Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and
be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
Acts 8:16
(For as yet he was fallen upon none of them: only
they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus.)
Acts 10:48
And
he commanded them to be baptized in the name of the Lord. Then prayed they him to tarry certain days.
Acts 19:5
When they heard this,
they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus.
1 Corinthians 1:13
Is Christ divided? was Paul crucified for you? or
were ye baptized in the name of Paul?
1 Corinthians 6:11
And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified
in the name of the Lord Jesus, AND by the Spirit of our God.
Colossians 3:17
17 And
whatsoever ye do in word or deed,
do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.