What Really Annoys You About Others?

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moondancer

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What annoys you about others?
do you believe when looking for someone, We should all be merry and bright and be full of unicorn dust on our adventures for God to find our soul mates..?
I’m bored so think of resting bitch on ice and you may get the picture.😀
I really get bored by charmers. Or those who think you should always be be “On”



What about you?

what gets your goat about others? No matter where you are or what your doing…
 
Lynx

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I try to not talk about what people do that annoys me. It accomplishes nothing and makes my blood pressure go up. =^.^=

But I'm a guy. We deal with annoying things by not thinking about them. From what I hear, women deal with it by talking about it. So your mileage may vary.
 
Susanna

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My reflection in the mirror may not count as “others” but it is getting really annoying compared to my heydays lol.
 
Cameron143

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I'm really annoyed by threads asking about what annoys me.
 
maxwel

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What really annoys me about others?


I don't think we have room for this.





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Noel25

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I don't like the way some people eat. Like the noises of smacking and crunching loudly. :eek:

To be fair, I don't mind some noise when eating. I just don't like it when people are super loud about it. And I hate when people burp and don't cover their mouths or say "excuse me."
 
Dino246

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What really annoys me about others?

They have opinions that differ from my facts.

;)
 
Mem

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Not being a very good speed reader and still getting used to bi-focal lenses, I read the thread title as, "What Beauty Annoys You About Others?" And that annoyed me. The truth that beauty annoys people annoys me, I mean, and not that I read too fast and thus read it wrong. Usually that turns out more comical than annoying.
 
MsMediator

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I'm pretty easy going but a few things annoy me.

Smacking/Slurping/Burping loudly
Farting loudly (or even not so loudly)
Eye-rolling
Talking too much without providing opportunities to enter conversation
Not responding to texts within a reasonable time
Providing unwanted advice
Being too pushy
Trying to control me through Pavlov method
 
TabinRivCA

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moondancer said:
What annoys you about others?
do you believe when looking for someone, We should all be merry and bright and be full of unicorn dust on our adventures for God to find our soul mates..?
I’m bored so think of resting bitch on ice and you may get the picture.😀
I really get bored by charmers. Or those who think you should always be be “On”



What about you?

what gets your goat about others? No matter where you are or what your doing…
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Nothing, I love others as myself😍 (is that the right answer?😂)
 
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I'm just glad we worked in another soulmate thread before thanksgiving...

Cheers!
 
Kireina

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I'd rather be with the happy person than the grumpy ones 😅 the latter will drain your energy lol

I love the happy ones ☺️ I love the positivity in their personality ☺️

I am dealing with people who take everything like a problem....they complain so much and it seems to them like everything is a challenge that they don't want to take...full of negativity in their words and heart....and every word you speak they don't even like you to finish it they will cut you off and complain about everything actually...it drains me but I have to stay positive despite the negativity they are showing.. I need to show my best smile because it annoys them more hahaha 😅



I get annoyed with people who are always late 😅 because I am very specific with time but well of course I'll forgive them but will tell them not to be late next time and value someone's time....
 
Noel25

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Kireina said:
I'd rather be with the happy person than the grumpy ones 😅 the latter will drain your energy lol

I love the happy ones ☺️ I love the positivity in their personality ☺️

I am dealing with people who take everything like a problem....they complain so much and it seems to them like everything is a challenge that they don't want to take...full of negativity in their words and heart....and every word you speak they don't even like you to finish it they will cut you off and complain about everything actually...it drains me but I have to stay positive despite the negativity they are showing.. I need to show my best smile because it annoys them more hahaha 😅



I get annoyed with people who are always late 😅 because I am very specific with time but well of course I'll forgive them but will tell them not to be late next time and value someone's time....
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You are one of the sweetest people here, Kireina! We love you for it!
 
victoriangent1961

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I have always been one to respect people for who they are, and not their position in life.
However, those who care about themselves only and have no respect for others, especially mature people, lose my respect quickly.
Also annoying are those who do not walk the talk and also make empty promises. Sure makes dating hard after a while when every lady who claims to know Christ as Saviour is deceitful.
 
Sculpt

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moondancer said:
What annoys you about others?
do you believe when looking for someone, We should all be merry and bright and be full of unicorn dust on our adventures for God to find our soul mates..?
I’m bored so think of resting bitch on ice and you may get the picture.😀
I really get bored by charmers. Or those who think you should always be be “On”



What about you?

what gets your goat about others? No matter where you are or what your doing…
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You wrote, "I really get bored by charmers. Or those who think you should always be be “On”

You got to read the room, right? lol
I mean, it's not that someone is on or off, charming or not, but rather appropriate for the situation. I'd say.

I have/had friends who are usually "happy and hyper" when we're together. We whip each other up often, and were both in agreement. It's organic. But we never burdened each other with the expectation. There's a time, place and mood to chillout.

If you're happy and hyper and the person you're with is not in the mood... it depends. Maybe it's a time to mourn or chill, or maybe it's a funk you can spark them out of. Just got to read the room. Don't ya think?

On a side note... I was just talking to my nephew who just doesn't "pause" when he's speaking. You want to have a conversation, you want to talk WITH them, not be the target of the onslaught. He doesn't pause, he doesn't read the room, the person he's talking to. He's being neglectfully selfish.
 
Lynx

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moondancer said:
I really get bored by charmers. Or those who think you should always be be “On”
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Sculpt said:
You wrote, "I really get bored by charmers. Or those who think you should always be be “On”

You got to read the room, right? lol
I mean, it's not that someone is on or off, charming or not, but rather appropriate for the situation. I'd say.

I have/had friends who are usually "happy and hyper" when we're together. We whip each other up often, and were both in agreement. It's organic. But we never burdened each other with the expectation. There's a time, place and mood to chillout.

If you're happy and hyper and the person you're with is not in the mood... it depends. Maybe it's a time to mourn or chill, or maybe it's a funk you can spark them out of. Just got to read the room. Don't ya think?

On a side note... I was just talking to my nephew who just doesn't "pause" when he's speaking. You want to have a conversation, you want to talk WITH them, not be the target of the onslaught. He doesn't pause, he doesn't read the room, the person he's talking to. He's being neglectfully selfish.
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Oooooh, I know exactly the kind she is talking about. Some people think they are being cute. If they catch you thinking about something, or being sad, or just resting, or anything less than maniacally cheerful, they will bounce past you and say, "Smile!"

Sometimes I get the urge to punch them swiftly in the gut and then say:
"Smile!

...

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Sometimes it's not so easy, huh?"
 
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