Lots of good viewpoints here. Some things I want to add or clarify are that, I, personally don't like most hymns. Most sound ancient, even though the message can apply to today. We're not impressing God with ancient language so much as what's in the heart, and some of those hymns can teach us or make us re-think & appreciate the glories of God. And something I don't think many people notice is that some music the words look like you're singing TO God; others ABOUT God. Hymnals have become traditional, but there is no rule that says churches must sing out of them. Psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs are what it's all about; not just one.
I agree with a comment made earlier that worship is not all just music, but I'm talking about the music aspect right now.
To the one who said they often go to church late just to avoid the music, I can understand that, even thought they might be missing out on SOME sweet presence of the Lord. But speakers in churches often mention late-comers as not caring enough or respecting God enough to get there on time.
(I think there can be several legitimate reasons!)
The kind of music I see as lacking in so many Christian churches is that they leave the Messianic Jewish kind to the synagogues. But it's the synagogues, I've discovered, stick to the Bible and our Jewish roots better than churches do. Their (Messianic, here) music shows us the intimacy of God throughout the ages and who He really is. And Hebrew words can show you more of the real meaning of biblical words, too. All this makes a lot of church music seem superficial.
I'd say Messianic music, if you really listen to it, either makes you want to dance with joy (God dances over us with joy) or else it makes you want to bow down, even lie on the floor, in worship. That's what I call true (musical) worship. Studying the Tabernacle God wanted the Israelites to build for Him, and all the DETAIL that was instructed about it really tells us something about God.
So I hope you get the point. Changing places of worship is not so easy though. People have their spouses to consider, and their spouse may not be at the same spiritual level they are and won't see the difference, and a huge one is that of being able to FIND such a place. Places like that are few and far between, unless you're fortunate enough to happen to LIVE near one.
Now can any of you relate to what I've been talking about? Has anyone else seen a difference in kinds of music, besides rocky that sounds more satanic than anything else? By the way, some of that can have a message as well, but I generally leave that to the baby Christians until God matures them.
Eli1--I heard something like that before too. It makes me wonder what that beat sounded like, though not that I would want to call demons out! But check out Messianic PRAISE music, the kind the hora dances go to. That is SO much different.