I write this as an encouragement
You know you are single when you dont actually need any helper constantly at your side and can cope very well on your own.
Human Helpers would only hinder you from what you need to do
God always tells you His Grace is sufficient
Some people cant accept this, but youve accepted it -- its not self-sufficiency, its God sufficiency
You can never cheat in life, because you have Gods grace...
You are honest and would never use anyone for your own purposes
Its on you to make decisions about your life and you make them, no matter how hard they are
Instead of one spouse you may actually have an entire fan club of supporters - but it will be just your name on the title
Because you are unique and one of a kind - you belong to God and everything you do is to glorify Him
People may ask you what is your secret...what keeps you going. You can only point to Jesus who has gifted you something that cannot be bought at any price