As others have said, speaking in tongues is a gift.
If you haven’t been given that gift it doesn’t make you a second class Christian in the Kingdom of God.
Do not let anyone tell you that it’s a sign are saved.
I was told years ago because I didn’t speak in tongues it was evidence I was NOT saved.
Yup - That's claim of the "UPCI" (United Pentecostal Church International), a minor lunatic fringe Pentecostal bunch.
NO MAJOR PENTECOSTAL OR CHARISMATIC GROUP associates "Speaking in tongues" with Being Born Again, or Salvation.
In my case I was Born Again in 1963, and "Baptized in the Holy Spirit" (to use "Assembly of God" Vernacular) in 1973. which had three effects:
One was that "Tongues" showed up in my mind, and would flow as long as I chose to speak them.
The second thing was that I also was burdened occasionally to INTERPRET tongues spoken in church, although I NEVER was burdened to SPEAK in tongues in church.
The third thing was that suddenly I was moved into an intense role as a Bible teacher in small groups, generally from NON-Pentecostal Liberal denominations, and given the materials to teach by the Holy Spirit generally the night before the meetings. This went on for over a decade up in central Ohio.
Bottom line:
NOBODY "HAS GIFTS" in terms of "personal ownership". The HOLY SPIRIT has all the Gifts, and HE burdens people with them AS HE WILLS, and AT SUCH TIME AS HE CHOOSES. HE may choose to use a certain person with a certain gift on a fairly regular basis (Like me with "Interpretation of tongues"), but in and of myself, I couldn't "Interpret a tongue" if you held a gun to my head.
Are there
Phonys?
BOY HOWDY!!! Anybody can speak in tongues with a little practice, or rip off a properly Biblical sounding "Prophesy", or "Interpretation".
SO when someone gives me a "Prophesy", or a "Word from the Lord", I file it in "Pending", and wait for confirmation. MOST "personal prophesies" die in "Pending".
On another occasion, my wife got a "prophetic word" from a visiting speaker, so we filed it in "Pending", and a month later another individual, totally unrelated to the first "prophet", and to the church itself, gave her the IDENTICAL Word. THAT'S when you start to take it seriously.
Paul (1 Cor 14) cautions that when a person speaks a "Word from God" in a meeting, that others should JUDGE that "word" as whether it be "fish", or "fowl".
Anybody who commits resources on the basis of an unconfirmed prophetic word IS A FOOL!!!! I've still got my copy of "88 reasons the rapture will happen in 1988". Some folks lost a BUNDLE because of that phony book.