do you read the Bible and say to yourself, i am a child of God just like the people i read about, so i should see the same results i read about in the Bible?
Yes, I'm a child of God through Christ Jesus, like those we read about; but the comparisons can be taken too far.
A lot of what's in the Bible is descriptive but not necessarily prescriptive. It's a huge mistake to think otherwise. Peter walked on water. When was the last time you tried that? If not, why not? It's in the New Testament. Don't you want the full NT experience?