I'd noticed that you hadn't been around. I know what you mean. We should sharpen each other's swords, not use them on each other.
I find the singles forum is usually kinder. Christian forums help...and they hurt. This is my experience. They may not be all they could be...they are what they are. I hope you're feeling better.
Father, I ask You in Jesus' name that by the power of Your Holy Spirit that You return my brother Seeking-Christ to health. I also ask that You'd help him in regards to his involvement on this forum. And fill him anew with Your Spirit. Amen.
2Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
3Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.
4There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called;
5one Lord, one faith, one baptism;
6one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all." - Ephesians 4:2-6 NIV