Rules of Engagement
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ok the rule is for woman...you have to wear a NEW outfit everytime you go on a date with a man
It doesnt have to be just bought from the shops with the price tags still on them but just something hes never seen before and you have to keep doing that EVERYTIME you go out on a date
as for the man, the rules are a bit more relaxed but the rule for them is their clothes have to be clean and they must wear underwear.
I dont know why this is but people think they can court or date in their unwashed pyjamas and trackies and ugg boots and faded denim jackets. No! Also, must brush your hair.
It doesnt have to be just bought from the shops with the price tags still on them but just something hes never seen before and you have to keep doing that EVERYTIME you go out on a date
as for the man, the rules are a bit more relaxed but the rule for them is their clothes have to be clean and they must wear underwear.
I dont know why this is but people think they can court or date in their unwashed pyjamas and trackies and ugg boots and faded denim jackets. No! Also, must brush your hair.
Show me a woman who's comfortable in a pair of jeans, and I'm good to go.
skinny jeans are extrmely uncomfortable.
if you the boyfriend the rule is YOU have to provide the jeans so bring a spare pair along
a woman isnt going to wear her own jeans on a date, and she doesnt ask a man to wear a dress, so dont make demands that are one way and assume shes always going to do what you want to do and you never care about what SHE wants to do.
I come across that attitude from men a lot... Not sure why. they expect women to do the same things as men even when its uncomfortable for them
and if you ever go to china and see wear the jeans are made in those jeans factories with all the chemicals they put in them you just wouldnt want to wear them after that
jeans are also extremely hard to make you cant just run them up on your home singer machine.
First of all, there's probably a better chance of me being abducted by aliens (which don't exist) while I'm on my way to a picnic in the Sahara desert in the middle of the Summer (I HATE the heat) than there is of me ever dating again, so there's that.
With that out of the way, I'm really not overly fond of skinny jeans myself. I only mentioned jeans because they're casual. I have nothing against dresses and what have you, and I certainly would never place any sort of clothing demands upon a woman. I really meant "comfortable" more in the sense that she didn't need to dress to impress. I'm really not impressed with fancy clothes, but that's just me.
As far as caring about what a woman wants to do, all joking aside, I'm probably the most selfless man alive as far as that is concerned.
Anyhow, like I said, I've pretty much put myself out to pasture, so don't pay me any mind.
jeans are so uncomfortable though lets be honest
they are hard, rough, get holes in them, the zips are tight, or if they are button fly they are a hassle, AND they are expenisve of they have a label on them
they also fade and get extremely ugly the more you wear them
and they are genrally the same boring colour..blue
if you working in the mines sure, but lets be rid of the idea that jeans are actually comfortable and that ladies really like wearing them, they are just too much effort
pyjama and trackies are way more comfortable and dresses (not all dresses, but they are much better to wear and dont restrict your waist and give you muffin top...yep thats a thing)
they are hard, rough, get holes in them, the zips are tight, or if they are button fly they are a hassle, AND they are expenisve of they have a label on them
they also fade and get extremely ugly the more you wear them
and they are genrally the same boring colour..blue
if you working in the mines sure, but lets be rid of the idea that jeans are actually comfortable and that ladies really like wearing them, they are just too much effort
pyjama and trackies are way more comfortable and dresses (not all dresses, but they are much better to wear and dont restrict your waist and give you muffin top...yep thats a thing)
You are buying both the wrong kind of jeans and at the wrong store.
also, you can fit anything in the pockets of jeans and why are they are there sooo many pockets, plus two on the butt side, where if you put anything in them you just squashing it whn you sit down?!
thats just weird I might as well sew two pockets on the backs of my skirts and dresses so someone can pinch me.
thats just weird I might as well sew two pockets on the backs of my skirts and dresses so someone can pinch me.
I obviously can't speak to how comfortable they feel on a woman because I'm a man.
That said, I wear jeans (black mostly or stonewashed blue...yep, I said it) probably about 99% of the time, and I find them to be extremely comfortable.
Anyhow, I've so given up on women that I don't even know what I'm doing in this conversation (I guess it beats dealing with the heretics in the BDF), so I'll just fade into the background.
(He turns around, scratches his back against the tree, and thinks to himself "Life is good"...and then he notices 4 hunters with their rifles aimed directly at him...lol)
really so jeans are extremely comfortable...? why would you assume what you find is comfortable is what women find comfortable?
have you never worn a terry bathrobe? if not you are just missing out on extreme comfort
should women ask you to dress in a terry bathrobe on a date? Im just not even getting your logic sorry
if you want casual ask women to wear velour trackies but then for women we may WANT to look fancy cos we actually LIKE looking fancy, its not necessarily to impress a guy
a date is a fun chance TO dress up because why would we wanna wear our boring everyday workwear on a date? You want us to wear...aprons and our high vis vests and safety shoes??
have you never worn a terry bathrobe? if not you are just missing out on extreme comfort
should women ask you to dress in a terry bathrobe on a date? Im just not even getting your logic sorry
if you want casual ask women to wear velour trackies but then for women we may WANT to look fancy cos we actually LIKE looking fancy, its not necessarily to impress a guy
a date is a fun chance TO dress up because why would we wanna wear our boring everyday workwear on a date? You want us to wear...aprons and our high vis vests and safety shoes??
Who said that I assumed any such thing?
Certainly not me.
I also said nothing about asking a woman to wear anything, so I have no idea why you keep on bringing that up.
Anyhow, you obviously don't need me to continue this conversation because you keep on putting words in my mouth.
Whatever.
The "right wedding attire" had nothing to do with one's choice of clothing.
More to the point, we are to be clothed in Christ's righteousness.
Washed in the blood of the Lamb.
Yeah. Try showing up at any other wedding covered in blood...
THIS IS WHAT you said
'show me a womans who's comfortable in jeans'
what woman is comfortable in jeans? I just told you why they are the most uncomfortable item of clothing ever designed! Women actually dont like wearing them. I speak as a woman lol
man some peoples reading comprehension skills are kinda lacking on this forum
i feel like having to mansplain everything all the time!
but as said...these people DO need rules and dating tips since they have no clue...
and if you read my post the rule for MEN is just that their clothes are clean and they wear underwear
so you may wear jeans as long as they are CLEAN but it seems most jeans are actually worn dirty with holes in them and faded and bleach and covered in I dont know what nasty chemicals
i feel like having to mansplain everything all the time!
but as said...these people DO need rules and dating tips since they have no clue...
and if you read my post the rule for MEN is just that their clothes are clean and they wear underwear
so you may wear jeans as long as they are CLEAN but it seems most jeans are actually worn dirty with holes in them and faded and bleach and covered in I dont know what nasty chemicals
