"Let him who stole steal no more."
"Honor you father and your mother, which is the first commandment with promise."
Here's a couple of the Ten Commandments Paul tells you and I to observe, right or wrong?
Yes. Those are things Paul said.
You extrapolate from that that Paul commands to work at the 10 commandments?
This is what Paul said just before those two statements;
Ephesians 4:23-24
23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
Working at the 10 commandments don't cause that.
Romans 8:3-4
3 For
what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:
4 That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
We don't lie, we don't steal, we honour our mother and father, we don't worship any gods but the One True God. Not because we are working at commandments. Because we are abiding in Christ. And the fruit of the Spirit cause us to walk this way.
Once we turn away from Christ, and start working at our interpretation of what we think the Law says, we become like the Pharisees and have to make up all kinds of rules for how to do those things the law says.
Take stealing, for example. To feel as if you're following the law you just don't take other peoples things. But there are lots of different ways to steal. You can overcharge for things that you sell. You can put a surcharge on things that other people sell. You can mis-report on how much time you spent on a job. You can receive something for free that you weren't supposed to receive as free. Even withholding charity could be a form of stealing.
You can feel as if you are righteous according to the law and not be Righteous at all. If you ever do feel righteous according to the law it just means you don't really understand the law. You missed something important.
The closest we ever come to being Righteous according to the Law is when we come to Christ and receive Rest from our work at trying to be righteous according to the law. Being given the Righteousness of Christ far outweighs any righteousness we think we have achieved by our own work.
Philippians 3:8-9
8 Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ,
9 And be found in him, not having mine own righteousness, which is of the law, but that which is through the faith of Christ, the righteousness which is of God by faith:
If we point back to the Law and say "You have to do this because the Law says so" we are misleading people. That is a way to use the Rod to correct your own version of what you think is incorrect behaviour. That is NOT the way hearts and minds are changed.
If we point to Christ and say "Come to Christ to receive forgiveness of sin and Eternal Life" we are actually being edifying. We are giving them the solution for their problems that we don't even know about. Their secret problems. Secret from us. Not secret from the Lord. That is the Way hearts and minds are changed. By God.
Ephesians 2:10 For
we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.
There is still time. God Willing.
Galatians 5:4 Christ is become of no effect unto you, whosoever of you are justified by the law; ye are fallen from grace.
Revelation 18:4 And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues.