Since Acts 2:38 and 22:16 speak directly to the fact that remission of one's sin takes places upon obedience to water baptism there is no question as to who is in denial. Paul stated in Romans that it is in obedience to baptism that a person is buried with Jesus into death wherein the body of sin is destroyed.I must leave you to your reality denial, then. I have done all I can do for you. I must go now. Fairwell.
Rom 6:4-6
4 Therefore we are buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
5 For if we have been planted together in the likeness of his death, we shall be also in the likeness of his resurrection:
6 Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin.