A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
On a "SIDEBAR" I have seen this Scripture used to say that if a man has been divorced, they can not be a Bishop or Deacon.
That is not a correct understanding of the Scripture IMO. Simply because at the time, it was not uncommon for men to have more than one wife. Pauls advice was that they should only have ONE wife, because there would be less confusion in the household.....
All of this, when read together, is VERY GOOD ADVICE to avoid contention and confusion in both the Church Congregation and in the Home. What is is not IMO is Commandments from God.... Customs of the time, as was the custom under the Law......
Anyway, thank you for the discussion. This is why I give you so much credit. For we may disagree, but we do so in Christian fellowship.
God bless you and yours...........my duties call me..........and my supper