I have always been close to God my entire life and the God I know does not plan to torment people who reject him for all eternity. I know what is taught and the scriptures that those who teach this use, can you tell me how a wonderful and loving God would torment forever. Putting something bad to sleep forever and out of its misery, like a dog with rabies, is merciful. Please explain without scripture (because I know the verses well) ...explain by your experience and relationship with God what he revealed to you about this. I don't understand, the God I know is not like this. I do believe there is a judgment and evil people who reject him will not have a good end, but not that way.
I read an interesting comment by a pastor on this subject. He quit preaching hell. He was convinced that it went against the concept of a loving God. He did this for 4 years. Not one person got saved in that time. He realised that the "loving God" without the "God who is judge" bit is ineffective. He went back to preaching the true gospel and people started getting saved.
Whether you like it or not, God only saves sinners. Most people don't accept that they are sinners. They think that they are good enough. They will get to live with that for eternity. God is not doing it to them, they bring it on themselves. Those who refuse to preach the whole gospel surely will offend no one. Life is pretty comfortable. Those who preach the real gospel upset people and will incur the wrath of many.
I was one who thought he was a decent young man. I was deluded. I was depressed, suicidal, hopeless and borderline alcoholic. Yet I considered myself a good person. It was only when I saw God's holiness and righteousness that I realised that I was a sinner. I saw that I had no hope of entering heaven. Now if I had imagined that I would simply have ceased to exist, I don't know that I would have accepted Christ. The one thing that kept me alive was the fear of what might happen after death. And that is what got me saved. The fear of the Lord is indeed the beginning of wisdom.