Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?
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She is doing fine and is just taking a break from CC. Her daughter has lived with us for the last 2 years and they spend some time talking to each other. Today they went to yard sales. There is some type of a yard sale festival in this town that runs through the weekend. I am sort of semi-retired and have taken some time to get used to the slower pace of living in Tennessee verses the chaos of Florida. My plan is to get a part time job soon, earn a little extra money and get out of the house for awhile. Thank you for asking.
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Yeah, I was looking forward to some interaction. He (OP) told me that since she lived 250 miles away he was not interested even though she was a single Christian girl in Finland. I'm starting to believe that he isn't really serious in finding a lady friend but uses this thread as some sort of therapy session.
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I'm thinking the poor man's real problem is not the act of therapy. It's the act of FINDING a therapist. You know why? Because Täällä on kylmä!!! Or loosely translated IT'S FRICKIN FREEZING. If any therapist are there, THEY need therapy. There's only about 5 and a half people in the whole country and they're all huddled in one place like penguins. I can't blame 'em. Because Täällä on kylmä!!!!
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Well,
to save you the hassle of sorting through all 41 pages here's a small, teeny, teeny, tiny explanation of why your suggestion (and a good one too) will not work (and this is summarizing what the OP here has told us)
Sweden and Norway are to far away.
That's it......
I AM NOT MAKING THAT UP.........
heck, one comment by him was about a girl 250 miles away being TOO FAR.
to save you the hassle of sorting through all 41 pages here's a small, teeny, teeny, tiny explanation of why your suggestion (and a good one too) will not work (and this is summarizing what the OP here has told us)
Sweden and Norway are to far away.
That's it......
I AM NOT MAKING THAT UP.........
heck, one comment by him was about a girl 250 miles away being TOO FAR.
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It is too far away if you think you need to be able to monitor and control her every minute of every day so that she doesn't cheat on you. Next town over is probably too far away if you think that as well. I guess it's a saving grace for women everywhere else that he won't look any further away.
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It's not too far away if you apply modern technology.
Make her install a smartphone in a corner of the ceiling. Put a security camera app on it so you can use your own phone to watch her all the time. If she leaves the room, assume she is cheating on you.
Problem solved with SCIENCE!
No no, no need to thank me. I'm just here to help.
Make her install a smartphone in a corner of the ceiling. Put a security camera app on it so you can use your own phone to watch her all the time. If she leaves the room, assume she is cheating on you.
Problem solved with SCIENCE!
No no, no need to thank me. I'm just here to help.
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It's not too far away if you apply modern technology.
Make her install a smartphone in a corner of the ceiling. Put a security camera app on it so you can use your own phone to watch her all the time. If she leaves the room, assume she is cheating on you.
Problem solved with SCIENCE!
No no, no need to thank me. I'm just here to help.
Make her install a smartphone in a corner of the ceiling. Put a security camera app on it so you can use your own phone to watch her all the time. If she leaves the room, assume she is cheating on you.
Problem solved with SCIENCE!
No no, no need to thank me. I'm just here to help.
Also could be very awkward if you lost your phone on the way to see her and someone else picked it up.
Ok, I read some pages and realized the message you want to give me.
You say, if I cant find a virtuous Christian girl, is because something is definitely wrong with me and Im the only problem. Not to say I have nothing to fix at all, but you talk like if everybody else was perfect, even the unbeliever tattooed girls who sleep with 5 different men everyday.
Summarizing, you say my problems are:
- Alcoholism (which Im fighting now)
- Lack of love and respect for others
- Lack of attention and comprehension
- Lack of trust and self-esteem
- Wrong attitudes to relationships
- No willingness to change
Well, so lets suppose all of these statements are 100 percent true, and that God made some kind of miracle on me and turned me into a better person. So what now ? The girl I want should be approaching my door wishing to develop a relationship with the new man I became in, according to your line of speech. And well, what if I still dont see this supposed girl ? What if I am still unable to find the girl I deserve now that I changed ? Because my environment will not change regardless of how I do change myself. My environment will stay the same if not change for the worse. What makes you think my around is waiting for me to change ? The world will be the same. Finland will continue to lose its religious identity. Girls here will continue to be unbelieving and promiscuous. NOTHING in my around will be better. There are NO indications I will find the girl of my life after I turn into something different. The sad reality is still there. Theres NO way I can find the girl I seek after I make a change on myself. It will be just as hard as it has been in my previous years, if not harder. And again, I DONT WANT to live single for the rest of my life ! Theres NO GUARANTEE I will find what I want once I change myself. This is what I have been denouncing since the beginning of the thread !
You say, if I cant find a virtuous Christian girl, is because something is definitely wrong with me and Im the only problem. Not to say I have nothing to fix at all, but you talk like if everybody else was perfect, even the unbeliever tattooed girls who sleep with 5 different men everyday.
Summarizing, you say my problems are:
- Alcoholism (which Im fighting now)
- Lack of love and respect for others
- Lack of attention and comprehension
- Lack of trust and self-esteem
- Wrong attitudes to relationships
- No willingness to change
Well, so lets suppose all of these statements are 100 percent true, and that God made some kind of miracle on me and turned me into a better person. So what now ? The girl I want should be approaching my door wishing to develop a relationship with the new man I became in, according to your line of speech. And well, what if I still dont see this supposed girl ? What if I am still unable to find the girl I deserve now that I changed ? Because my environment will not change regardless of how I do change myself. My environment will stay the same if not change for the worse. What makes you think my around is waiting for me to change ? The world will be the same. Finland will continue to lose its religious identity. Girls here will continue to be unbelieving and promiscuous. NOTHING in my around will be better. There are NO indications I will find the girl of my life after I turn into something different. The sad reality is still there. Theres NO way I can find the girl I seek after I make a change on myself. It will be just as hard as it has been in my previous years, if not harder. And again, I DONT WANT to live single for the rest of my life ! Theres NO GUARANTEE I will find what I want once I change myself. This is what I have been denouncing since the beginning of the thread !
1) if the Lord changes you, then He gets all the honor and glory. We were created to worship Him in all things. Worship is a lifestyle. We live surrendered to Him in ALL things, including our desire to marry.
2) if/when the changes happen, you’ll be a better person all around.
3) if your surrounding is the problem, then also change the surroundings. Move.
2) if/when the changes happen, you’ll be a better person all around.
3) if your surrounding is the problem, then also change the surroundings. Move.
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