Some women, some. Hubby and I were discussing this in a joking manner one day. I said I never got the spanking fetish, can't understand it. But, I said " I was spanked as a kid, so that may be the reason". lol
I grant you I was shocked when so many women on my FB feed were talking about Mr. Grey. I assumed it was something like Pride and Prejudice, I was soooo wrong. Hubby and I discussed this too. Mr. Grey was supposed to be a very rich man. Hubby said no woman would have put up with his "antics" if he was a regular Joe.
Sure would love to see where you did your research. What do you mean by "get out of line"? If you're talking about role play that's one thing...
So when Mr. Kayla "gets out of line" can I give him a sexy smack up the head with the rolling pin?