Unconditional love and the church's approach to homosexuality

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People chose to go to hell because of unbelief and the fact they reject the grace gift of God

their rebellion is the end result. Not the cause
Hell is the end result of their rebellion toand their refusal to accept God's free gift of grace. In their rebellion could be the element of unbelief, but even some who believe but do not the will of the Father end up in hell. Simply saying "I believe" is not getting you to heaven.
 
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The church must tell all people they are sinners, for all have sinned and fall short

the church does not need to differentiate induvidual sins, because it does not matter what sins they commit, all have sinned,

the law shows us we are sinners, as sinners, we are cursed, we are lost, the only way to salvation is the blood of the lanb (the cross)

once a person is saved, God will work on their personal sin issues.

we are not to judge the world but help it to get saved, when you alienate people because of certain sin, yoru not going to draw them to God your gonna push them farther

they can’t stop those sins as an unbeliever unless they are not really deep seated sins, and even as a new believer those deep seeded sins will not just stop over night, they are babes only capable of milk, they need to mature before we can give them meat,

to many people come to god and are judged because they can not stop certain sins overnight, and get tossed out, and we wonder why they never find healing

god will hold us accountable for these major crimes against his love and his gospel.
I don't alienate anyone. I pray for and welcome all sinners to come to repentance and faith in Jesus. If they feel alienated because of the guilt of their sins, that's the grip of Satan on their hearts. All they have to do is trust in the Lord with all their heart and lean not on their own understanding and Satan won't have a foothold anymore.
 
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Why do I feel like I'm playing a game of "I know you are, but what am I?" with several posters here? :unsure: I didn't fail to understand, it was just oddly stated "and loves them so much that HE allows them to spend eternity ..." If you meant to say it differently then fine. I just pointed out how odd that comment was. I don't believe God sends people to hell either. But He doesn't lovingly allow them to go to hell either. Just an odd turn of phrase you used.
Do you believe God gave us free will? If so, God loves us so much that HE gave us the free will that allows us to reject HIM; HE loves us so much that HE gave us the free will that allows us to rebel against HIM; HE loves us so much that HE gace us the free will that allows us to sin against HIM; and yes, HE loves us so much that HE gave us the the free will to make a choice to either live eternally with HIM in heaven or live eternally without HIM in hell. Would God have loved us more if he made us as machineswith no free will, that we could do no wrong and commit no sins because we are programmed accordngly?
 
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I don't expect you to, nor does it bother me that you don't, understand that I am saved solely by God's grace through my faith in Jesus Christ, and as result of.y salvation and faith I do work for the glory of God. You have a very perverse view of legalism when you call everyone who advocates obeying God's command to "go and sin no more" legalism.

God does love His children, but only those that are born from above and are obedient to Him are His chidren.

like every good Father, God wants His children to be obedient, not to live in rebellion and sin like the heathen. His children will take the narrow way through the difficult gate. Unrepentant sinners are not children of God which is why the unrepentant sinners take the broad way to eternal destruction.
I don’t expect you to see that you can say this all day long, but when you proclaim one can fall away that they can return to sin, and In The end lose that salvation. in my view. You in effect claim you will be saved based on your power or ability to continue to walk and keep whatever view of Gods commands need to be kept in Order to be saved
 
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I don't alienate anyone. I pray for and welcome all sinners to come to repentance and faith in Jesus. If they feel alienated because of the guilt of their sins, that's the grip of Satan on their hearts. All they have to do is trust in the Lord with all their heart and lean not on their own understanding and Satan won't have a foothold anymore.
If you go judge homosexuals and judge them for that sin, and say they need to repent and recieve Christ for that sin, your separating them from other sinners, and in effect alienating them
 
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I don’t expect you to see that you can say this all day long, but when you proclaim one can fall away that they can return to sin, and In The end lose that salvation. in my view. You in effect claim you will be saved based on your power or ability to continue to walk and keep whatever view of Gods commands need to be kept in Order to be saved
When you follow Jesus, you're walking with Him, and in following and walking with Him, you're also living as He lived and commanded those that followand walk with him: in repentance and faith.
 
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Do you believe God gave us free will? If so, God loves us so much that HE gave us the free will that allows us to reject HIM; HE loves us so much that HE gave us the free will that allows us to rebel against HIM; HE loves us so much that HE gace us the free will that allows us to sin against HIM; and yes, HE loves us so much that HE gave us the the free will to make a choice to either live eternally with HIM in heaven or live eternally without HIM in hell. Would God have loved us more if he made us as machineswith no free will, that we could do no wrong and commit no sins because we are programmed accordngly?
Yeah he does

he also gave us eternal life

do you think he is going to give eternal life to someone he KNOWS will reject him ten years from now?

or do you doubt Gods omniscience, and and thing I ten year God says, “Oh myself“ (oh God) I did not know he would reject me, I must take my gift of eternal life back. He fooled me” !
 
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When you follow Jesus, you're walking with Him, and in following and walking with Him, you're also living as He lived and commanded those that followand walk with him: in repentance and faith.
Yep, but Jesus also said if a sheep strays he leaves the flock and goes to get them. And his true sheep follow him
 
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A person does not just stop trusting in Jesus, the only reason a person loses faith in anyone is that person ceases to be trustworthy, to say someone can lose faith in God is to in effect claim Christ is not trustworthy
 

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Let's not argue and be spiteful. That's what the fallen one would want.
 
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If you go judge homosexuals and judge them for that sin, and say they need to repent and recieve Christ for that sin, your separating them from other sinners, and in effect alienating them
I've never done what you're suggesting. That said, if someone who claims to be a follower of Jesus Christ tells me they are watching porn or getting drunk or in adulterous affair or cheating on a school exam or stealing from their employer or planning to murder their boss or fornicating with their fiancé or in homosexual relationship or committing any other sin, I would tell them it is sinful to do so and encourage them to stop and get on te narrow path through the difficult gate for Jesus's namesake. Just like I would encourage a brother or sister in Christ who is on the narrow path and has gone through the difficult gate to keep on keepin' on because the fight is not yet won and the race is not yet over.

What would you say: "you don't have to stop, Jesus loves you this I know"?
 
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Yeah he does

he also gave us eternal life

do you think he is going to give eternal life to someone he KNOWS will reject him ten years from now?

or do you doubt Gods omniscience, and and thing I ten year God says, “Oh myself“ (oh God) I did not know he would reject me, I must take my gift of eternal life back. He fooled me” !
God is all-knowing, including knowing in advance those who will claim salvation but will in the end apostacize. God gives eternal life to only those of us that love Him and are obedient to Him, namely: those of us He rebirths with the Holy Spirit, those of us that continue to walk with Him and are obedient to Him, those of us that abide in Him until He either calls us to Him or when He comes and snatches us at His return.
 

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I have no ignored anything my friend, you can twist scripture however you want, but your salvation by water baptism and all your other works will be rejected by God

yes he was dead, he had no access to Hs fathers help or blessings, he was on his own. At no time did he stop being the son

again, he said MY SON

your the one ignoring that fact, MY SON

a child of God is a child of God, if he walks away, he is not blessed nor does he have access through prayer of Gods help, he will fail, and if he is a true son he will return with humility (if he does not die first) but even if he dies, his father will still go get him

thats what fathers do. I can only assume you have no kids, Or your father did not love you that way, I pray if you do have kids you do not treat the, the way you demands god treats you
I did not twist scripture you just refuse to accept what it clearly says. "For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found..." Luke 15:24 In this case the father did not go after the son. He waited in great expectation for his son to come to his senses and return to him. Again, while he was away he was considered dead.

You can go off in whatever direction you like. The scripture still says what it says.
 
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A person does not just stop trusting in Jesus, the only reason a person loses faith in anyone is that person ceases to be trustworthy, to say someone can lose faith in God is to in effect claim Christ is not trustworthy
People leave the faith, indeed some never come to faith, and return to or stay in a state of rebellion for any number of reasons. John Calvin said that God's grace is irresistible, yet people hear the gospel message, acknowledge it as a great message, either come to faith or don't come to faith, and some that do come to faith later fall away (apostacize) for whatever reason. We see it because they make headlines: pop pastors, Christian musicians, philosophers, etc. Why?
 
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I did not twist scripture you just refuse to accept what it clearly says. "For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found..." Luke 15:24 In this case the father did not go after the son. He waited in great expectation for his son to come to his senses and return to him. Again, while he was away he was considered dead.

You can go off in whatever direction you like. The scripture still says what it says.
He still said

MY SON

No matter how you twist it, it is still his son

A child of God is a child of God, dead or alive

Those not born are illegitimate children and are NOT SONS
 
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People leave the faith, indeed some never come to faith, and return to or stay in a state of rebellion for any number of reasons. John Calvin said that God's grace is irresistible, yet people hear the gospel message, acknowledge it as a great message, either come to faith or don't come to faith, and some that do come to faith later fall away (apostacize) for whatever reason. We see it because they make headlines: pop pastors, Christian musicians, philosophers, etc. Why?
You missed the whole point

You don’t come to faith then walk away unless God is untrustworthy,

Those who fall away were never of us, if they were of us they would have stayed (the apostle John)

He who does not believe is condemned already, Jesus did nit say he who believed then later stops believing become condemned again
 
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He still said

MY SON

No matter how you twist it, it is still his son

A child of God is a child of God, dead or alive

Those not born are illegitimate children and are NOT SONS
Anyone who falls away, i.e., apostacizes, is no a child of God.
 
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You missed the whole point

You don’t come to faith then walk away unless God is untrustworthy,

Those who fall away were never of us, if they were of us they would have stayed (the apostle John)

He who does not believe is condemned already, Jesus did nit say he who believed then later stops believing become condemned again
You miss the point. God doesn't change; God doesn't fall away; God doesn't abandon anyone. People change, fall away, and abandon God.
 
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Anyone who falls away, i.e., apostacizes, is no a child of God.
He never was a child. They fell away from the truth which could have saved them. Not from salvation

The prodigal son was called “my son”