A question for the men...

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Lanolin said:
sorry no idea, though I did give his wife an arabic new testament to give to him to read.

A lot of couples are unequally yoked because people are too much in a hurry to marry instead of focusing on God.

People have this idea that you can please a spouse and please God at the same time. But God doesnt want us distracted. If this was the case, then Jesus would have married and all the disciples would have bought their wives along or tried to set each other up on dates. And the Bible would read like a Danielle Steel novel.

But it doesnt...some of it reads like 'The Man who had too many wives' (Solomon)
'I cant keep my pants on' (King David)
'4 versions of one wedding, one crucifixtion and no funeral' (gospels)
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Yes. The wedding I am looking forward to is coming soon an is up in the sky!:DPTL!
 
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I think the general consensus in this thread, Pipp, is "makeup or absence thereof doesn't really matter, but your attitude is more important than fresh breath and dry armpits."
 
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I generally don't find women unattractive, so much as I find the prospect of marriage with them unappealing. (Which is fine, because they probably wouldn't want to marry me either!) Just seems like it would make life, and my walk with god more complicated than it needs to be. But that's probably because most women I know are a bit more worldly than I would prefer.
 
Instant?

Pull no punches?

No political correctness?

(Please don't hate me...)

FAT / "thick" / "extra" / etc.

(I am assuming your question includes 'physical' attractiveness.)

She may be the sweetest kindest most wonderful human being "on the inside" (which is certainly very attractive in terms of 'personality traits') - but if she is "too large on the outside" - she is "INSTANTLY unattractive" (using your words verbatim).

Just answering the question honestly.

I do not want to discourage anyone or hurt their feelings.

It does not affect the worth of the person.

However, quite honestly, it [can and] does affect ['physical'] "attractiveness" in the eye of the beholder.

For me, it is a matter of personal preference.

I do not speak for all men.
 
GaryA said:
Instant?

Pull no punches?

No political correctness?

(Please don't hate me...)

FAT / "thick" / "extra" / etc.

(I am assuming your question includes 'physical' attractiveness.)

She may be the sweetest kindest most wonderful human being "on the inside" (which is certainly very attractive in terms of 'personality traits') - but if she is "too large on the outside" - she is "INSTANTLY unattractive" (using your words verbatim).

Just answering the question honestly.

I do not want to discourage anyone or hurt their feelings.

It does not affect the worth of the person.

However, quite honestly, it [can and] does affect ['physical'] "attractiveness" in the eye of the beholder.

For me, it is a matter of personal preference.

I do not speak for all men.
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No hate. I asked and you answered honestly.
 
ladies, you heard it from the men...tip wear lipstick to keep you lips stuck together. Dont go round opening and closing your gob like a fish.
 
I heard that lipstick has fish scales in the ingredients, to make it iridescent. Also wax and probably artificial colours and flavours. You know, stuff that you put on your mouth has to be FDA approved right. Just make sure it doesnt have PVA in it. That is wrong kind of glue.

You can use it as a facemask though, it peels right off, taking the blackheads with it.
 
I had two girls called Fatima in my school. I dont know if the boys ever made fun of their names, but I do know that one was made fun of because she was smart and clever, not because of her size.

I found if you are TOO anything, that makes you stand out, it something people will make fun of. I think thats kind of sad. Also if you are TOO attractive, then it will be a problem as well as your man or husband or boyfriend will have issues with jealousy and possessiveness cos of other guys hitting on you.
 
You can stay a doll and just look pretty and be dumb, but most women want to use their brains methinks. Otherwise later in life you will probably have dementia. Or a stroke.
 
Lanolin said:
You can stay a doll and just look pretty and be dumb, but most women want to use their brains methinks. Otherwise later in life you will probably have dementia. Or a stroke.
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I dont think theres a link between a stroke and dementia and stupidity..... lol
 
Ego, massive ego. I remember scrolling through tik tok and one lady, attractive but not blow away, dressed in a bikini legit said that if we look at her and don't find her hot or attractive, that we are gay. Now this woman rightfully got roasted in the comments with many saying her ego dropped her in points in a 1-10 scale. My point is when a woman acts like this, has a massive ego then are instantly less attractive.
 
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