Unconditional love and the church's approach to homosexuality

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I believe that the way many churches and Christians approach the issue of homosexuality is unbiblical.

Churches market themselves as offering unconditional love.
However, all too often they use a bait and switch tactic whereby they offer unconditional love to tempt people in and yet once 'captured', it is discovered that this love and acceptance is conditional on the newcomer changing in whichever way the church 'elders' dictate they should change.
If the church member doesn't change, they may find that they are not included in ways that they were before.

This is manipulation and spiritual abuse, and is absolutely not the kind of unconditional love offered by Jesus.

Before anybody says that homosexuality is forbidden by the Bible and that I'm "ignoring scripture"...
Prostitution is also forbidden in the Bible, and we all know how Jesus asked people not to throw stones and cast judgement.

You see, Jesus uses love to define scripture, and yet humans use scripture to define love.

Jesus reached out to the marginalised, and yet we reach out to condemn.
Perhaps it's in our fallen nature to want to play God?

Lastly, the reason I'm sticking up for homosexuals and using them as an example here is not because I'm gay myself, just as the reason why I'm against racism is not because I am black.
Unconditional love does not mean unconditional acceptance...

Hebrews 12:5-8 (NASB) and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons, "MY SON, DO NOT REGARD LIGHTLY THE DISCIPLINE OF THE LORD, NOR FAINT WHEN YOU ARE REPROVED BY HIM; FOR THOSE WHOM THE LORD LOVES HE DISCIPLINES, AND HE SCOURGES EVERY SON WHOM HE RECEIVES." It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline? But if you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons.
 
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Triune comes from Stoicism...

Monad is Father, Nous is Spirit, Psyche is Soul

Logos runs through each, uniting them

If we ignore the one we are bound to divide
Brother,

Father Son and Spirit is clear in scripture, each three consisting of one in being, which is God.
 
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It is why I call being against deification anti-christ

He died to get this message to you
 
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It is why I call being against deification anti-christ

He died to get this message to you
Brother

Christ died so that I might have life eternally with Him, in a glorified body with Him, but not that I might be a god. Claiming you are or will be a god is not biblical.
 
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Brother

Christ died so that I might have life eternally with Him, in a glorified body with Him, but not that I might be a god. Claiming you are or will be a god is not biblical.
I assure you it is
 
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Indeed, Jesus quotes Psalms saying "have I not said thou art gods" when questioned about his claims...

You are as the Pharasee if you deny it

Baptism by Spirit is this happening
 
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I assure you it is
Brother

No. So far I disagree with most of what you've stated. You have no authority to assure me of anything. The Bible is God's word to all humanity. Your view of God's word not sound doctrinally. You seem new age, and you seem more a Buddhist humanist than a true follower of Jesus. You twist scripture to your own destruction, and you believe wrongly. Bottom line: you're a false teacher, and Jesus warned us of you and those like you. Repent, bro, and be saved. Stop thinking of yourself as a deity; you aren't.
 
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Brother

No. So far I disagree with most of what you've stated. You have no authority to assure me of anything. The Bible is God's word to all humanity. Your view of God's word not sound doctrinally. You seem new age, and you seem more a Buddhist humanist than a true follower of Jesus. You twist scripture to your own destruction, and you believe wrongly. Bottom line: you're a false teacher, and Jesus warned us of you and those like you. Repent, bro, and be saved. Stop thinking of yourself as a deity; you aren't.
Read your Bible instead of listening to your pastor

Also read Gregory Palamas and Meister Eckhart

These are the greatest figures of Christian tradition

Do not take my word for it either

But for sure don't take a pastors word for it, it is his business racket
 
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4:10-11 says no birthdays or christmas

Every day is Holy with the Spirit, making some more special makes the others suck more by comparison... and the holiday never lives up to how you hyped it
 

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Jesus says nothing against homosexuality...

The second part of the law is to love all as yourself...

I think this covers it to the extent it does not involve me.

Whether they are saved is for God to say, not us
The Apostle Paul was chosen by God to be a witness of His will. (Acts 22:14-15) Paul's letter to the Romans addresses homosexuality. (See Romans 1:26-32 below) He also spoke concerning how to deal with sexually immoral individuals that claim to be believers in 1 Corinthians 5:9-13. They must be removed from among the congregation. Society's acceptance of behavior does not change God's truth.

"When I wrote to you before, I told you not to associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. 10 But I wasn't talking about unbelievers who indulge in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. 11 I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don't even eat with such people.

It isn't my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning. 13 God will judge those on the outside; but as the Scriptures say, "You must remove the evil person from among you." 1 Cor 5:9-13 NLT

"For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;" Rom. 1:26-28)
 
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The Apostle Paul was chosen by God to be a witness of His will. (Acts 22:14-15) Paul's letter to the Romans addresses homosexuality. (See Romans 1:26-32 below) He also spoke concerning how to deal with sexually immoral individuals that claim to be believers in 1 Corinthians 5:9-13. They must be removed from among the congregation. Society's acceptance of behavior does not change God's truth.

"When I wrote to you before, I told you not to associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. 10 But I wasn't talking about unbelievers who indulge in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. 11 I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don't even eat with such people.

It isn't my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning. 13 God will judge those on the outside; but as the Scriptures say, "You must remove the evil person from among you." 1 Cor 5:9-13 NLT

"For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;" Rom. 1:26-28)
I'm saying though, it has nothing to do with the church...
 

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There is one Mediator between God and men, the Man Christ Jesus.
 
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There is one Mediator between God and men, the Man Christ Jesus.
Context is important for what I quoted:


1 O foolish Galatians, who hath bewitched you, that ye should not obey the truth, before whose eyes Jesus Christ hath been evidently set forth, crucified among you?
2 This only would I learn of you, Received ye the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith?
3 Are ye so foolish? having begun in the Spirit, are ye now made perfect by the flesh?
4 Have ye suffered so many things in vain? if it be yet in vain.
5 He therefore that ministereth to you the Spirit, and worketh miracles among you, doeth he it by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith?
6 Even as Abraham believed God, and it was accounted to him for righteousness.
7 Know ye therefore that they which are of faith, the same are the children of Abraham.
8 And the scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the heathen through faith, preached before the gospel unto Abraham, saying, In thee shall all nations be blessed.
9 So then they which be of faith are blessed with faithful Abraham.
10 For as many as are of the works of the law are under the curse: for it is written, Cursed is every one that continueth not in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them.
11 But that no man is justified by the law in the sight of God, it is evident: for, The just shall live by faith.
12 And the law is not of faith: but, The man that doeth them shall live in them.
13 Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree:
14 That the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Jesus Christ; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.
15 Brethren, I speak after the manner of men; Though it be but a man's covenant, yet if it be confirmed, no man disannulleth, or addeth thereto.
16 Now to Abraham and his seed were the promises made. He saith not, And to seeds, as of many; but as of one, And to thy seed, which is Christ.
17 And this I say, that the covenant, that was confirmed before of God in Christ, the law, which was four hundred and thirty years after, cannot disannul, that it should make the promise of none effect.
18 For if the inheritance be of the law, it is no more of promise: but God gave it to Abraham by promise.
19 Wherefore then serveth the law? It was added because of transgressions, till the seed should come to whom the promise was made; and it was ordained by angels in the hand of a mediator.
20 Now a mediator is not a mediator of one, but God is one.
21 Is the law then against the promises of God? God forbid: for if there had been a law given which could have given life, verily righteousness should have been by the law.
22 But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
23 But before faith came, we were kept under the law, shut up unto the faith which should afterwards be revealed.
24 Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ, that we might be justified by faith.
25 But after that faith is come, we are no longer under a schoolmaster.
26 For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus.
27 For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.
28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.
29 And if ye be Christ's, then are ye Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise.
 

Wansvic

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I'm saying though, it has nothing to do with the church...
You may want to read the scripture again: "It isn't my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning. 13 God will judge those on the outside; but as the Scriptures say, "You must remove the evil person from among you." 1 Cor. 5:12-13


"When I wrote to you before, I told you not to associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. 10 But I wasn't talking about unbelievers who indulge in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. 11 I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don't even eat with such people.
It isn't my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning. 13 God will judge those on the outside; but as the Scriptures say, "You must remove the evil person from among you." 1 Cor 5:9-13 NLT