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May 17, 2021
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I wasn't sure where else to go but here. I've been struggling a lot with this and I can't turn to my friends or family because they'd just make fun of me. Basically, the problem is I'm attracted to women of other races. Yes, I'm aware of race realism and I know all the ways we're different, but society's normalization and indoctrination of this behavior has gotten to me. Is there a way I can stop being attracted to women of other races, or at least have better self control so I never date/marry one?
 

Oncefallen

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I'm approving this thread solely out of morbid curiosity to figure out whether you are a sincerely misguided youth or a troll.

Clearly from your post you have some reason to believe that interracial marriage is morally wrong. What is your biblical basis for this conviction?
 

Subhumanoidal

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I'm going troll.
1) Profile is basically empty except for generic answers.
2) Also inflammatory question.
3) Mixed with joining the site and this is the only post.
Typical three strike troll.
 
May 17, 2021
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Are you people kidding? Ofcourse this is my only post, I'm here solely because this is something I've struggled with. Where else do you expect me to go with this?
 
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Live4Him

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Are you people kidding? Ofcourse this is my only post, I'm here solely because this is something I've struggled with. Where else do you expect me to go with this?
Hi.

Why is it wrong, in your opinion, to be attracted to women of other races?

I was married to a black Latina from Panama for 18 years myself.
 
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I'm approving this thread solely out of morbid curiosity to figure out whether you are a sincerely misguided youth or a troll.

Clearly from your post you have some reason to believe that interracial marriage is morally wrong. What is your biblical basis for this conviction?
I'm coming at it from a common sense perspective. Race mixing is about destroying all the unique cultures and races, making us all the same. Secondly Africans are the most genetically distinct from all the other races, almost everything about us is different. IQ, our anatomy, our skeleton, even our DNA. Thirdly you're aware that white people only make up 9% of the world population and that number is declining right? Even in our own countries.
 
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Hi.

Why is it wrong, in your opinion, to be attracted to women of other races?

I was married to a black Latina from Panama for 18 years myself.
The attraction itself isn't so bad, it's acting on it. White people as a race are going away. We only make up 9% of the global population and that number's declining.
 
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Live4Him

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The attraction itself isn't so bad, it's acting on it. White people as a race are going away. We only make up 9% of the global population and that number's declining.
I'm confused (and everybody said "AMEN!"...lol).

Are you saying that you're concerned about preserving the "white" race?
 
May 8, 2021
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I'm coming at it from a common sense perspective. Race mixing is about destroying all the unique cultures and races, making us all the same. Secondly Africans are the most genetically distinct from all the other races, almost everything about us is different. IQ, our anatomy, our skeleton, even our DNA. Thirdly you're aware that white people only make up 9% of the world population and that number is declining right? Even in our own countries.
You have come to a place, Christian Chat, where we all identify as one in Christ Jesus. Ethnic superiority, inferiority, nor any earthly identifiers separate us.

"There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." ~ Gal 3:28

Wrong place. Return to the world, you will not find what you are looking for here Mr Troll.
 
May 17, 2021
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You have come to a place, Christian Chat, where we all identify as one in Christ Jesus. Ethnic superiority, inferiority, nor any earthly identifiers separate us.

"There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." ~ Gal 3:28

Wrong place. Return to the world, you will not find what you are looking for here Mr Troll.
So just let the people who made all the great nations, made the computer, airplanes, ironclad boats, the internet, did the moonlanding go extinct? People with that attitude give me no hope. I've presented you with nothing but facts and you continue to call me a troll. I know why, it's because not one of you can tell me I'm wrong and that bothers you.
 
May 17, 2021
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I didn't even want this be a debate. I just wanted to know how I could cope with being attracted to other races.
 
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Godsgirl83

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I didn't even want this be a debate. I just wanted to know how I could cope with being attracted to other races.
Well, I wanted to answer this. I read your op earlier today and didn't have time to reply.
Now after coming back and reading through the post starting at post 3 I too am questioning the motives here.
And I'm going to attempt to show just WHY that is.
First off, a side note: WHITE is NOT a race... it is a color.
People of light color skin are often called "WHITE" even if they have no Caucasian blood in them.

Now, what REALLY makes me question the motives is this (and forgive me if I am reading/interpreting this wrong. But from where I'm at right now it comes across like this- I'll explain below the quotes)
Secondly Africans are the most genetically distinct from all the other races, almost everything about us is different
Thirdly you're aware that white people only make up 9% of the world population and that number is declining right? Even in our own countries.
We only make up 9% of the global population
So, in the first quote you are talking about Africans saying "almost everything about "US" is different"
The second and third quotes you are talking about "white" people using the words "OUR" and "WE"

It makes it a little confusing, and makes it a little more understandable as to why people might think you are trolling.
 
May 8, 2021
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I didn't even want this be a debate. I just wanted to know how I could cope with being attracted to other races.
I didn't even want this be a debate.
1.) You do not always get what you want.
2.) This is hardly a debate.
~Life


People with that attitude give me no hope.
Jesus is The Living Hope ~1Pet 1:3

I've presented you with nothing but facts and you continue to call me a troll.
The fact is, you are a troll, with no facts.

I just wanted to know how I could cope with being attracted to other races.
Acceptance or Castration.

Take your trolling back where it belongs. 🗑️🚽
 
May 17, 2021
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Well, I wanted to answer this. I read your op earlier today and didn't have time to reply.
Now after coming back and reading through the post starting at post 3 I too am questioning the motives here.
And I'm going to attempt to show just WHY that is.
First off, a side note: WHITE is NOT a race... it is a color.
People of light color skin are often called "WHITE" even if they have no Caucasian blood in them.

Now, what REALLY makes me question the motives is this (and forgive me if I am reading/interpreting this wrong. But from where I'm at right now it comes across like this- I'll explain below the quotes)





So, in the first quote you are talking about Africans saying "almost everything about us is different"
The second and third quotes you are talking about "white" people using the words "OUR" and "WE"

It makes it a little confusing, and makes it a little more understandable as to why people might think you are trolling.
To clarify, when I say "White" I'm referring to the white race. Looking white dosen't make you white, having European/Aryan blood does.
 

seoulsearch

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I didn't even want this be a debate. I just wanted to know how I could cope with being attracted to other races.
To clarify, when I say "White" I'm referring to the white race. Looking white dosen't make you white, having European/Aryan blood does.
All right.

I picked up my game token at the front booth, and I'd like to take a turn.

Have you ever considered that your attraction to other races might be something from God Himself?

Even Moses was married to a Cushite woman (whom some claim was Ethiopian) and was heavily criticized by his siblings because of it.

I'm just curious -- what makes you 100% sure that God has "called" you to "preserve" what you believe to be is the Aryan race?

I come from a family and circle of friends with a whole lot of different marbles thrown into one bag, and some of them have expressed that they felt a specific and strong desire to marry someone of a different race other than themselves.

I don't know if you've considered this, but if it's actually God that has given you your attraction to other races, no amount of advice or prayer is going to make that go away.

The very fact that you're struggling so much seems to be a clue that it just might not be something that you can wave away with a "Dear Lord, please let me only be attracted to truly genuine, only real Aryan white people!" prayer.
 

Lynx

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To clarify, when I say "White" I'm referring to the white race. Looking white dosen't make you white, having European/Aryan blood does.
Pfft! Aryan blood...

If you were a member of a master race, you would have better things to do than try to start arguments on forums for amusement. Trolling forums doesn't exactly scream Ubermensch. :sneaky:

Go ahead and marry a girl of another race, if she will have you. Maybe she can teach you how to use your time profitably. :rolleyes:
 
May 17, 2021
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Pfft! Aryan blood...

If you were a member of a master race, you would have better things to do than try to start arguments on forums for amusement. Trolling forums doesn't exactly scream Ubermensch. :sneaky:

Go ahead and marry a girl of another race, if she will have you. Maybe she can teach you how to use your time profitably. :rolleyes:
I never asked to have an argument, I just wanted advice. Also, don't most blacks choose to riot, loot, and blame white people all day instead of finding a job?
 

Lynx

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I never asked to have an argument, I just wanted advice. Also, don't most blacks choose to riot, loot, and blame white people all day instead of finding a job?
Well there you go. You just HAD to say that.

You could have had a nice long troll thread. But nooooo, you had to put down blacks. :rolleyes: