are you cursed? ask God to remove it
But Christ rescued us from the Law’s curse, when he became a curse in our place. This is because the Scriptures say that anyone who is nailed to a tree is under a curse. Galatians 3:13
Christians are not cursed but if they think they are, they can consult the above scripture and others and remove a big weight off of themselves
Men also are cursed by God after the fall.
Then to Adam He (God) said,
“Because you have listened to the voice of your wife, (and not God)
and have eaten from the tree about which I commanded you, saying,
‘You shall not eat from it’;
Cursed is the ground because of you; In toil you shall eat of it All the days of your life.
Cursed to labor to survive and provide four you and your family.
Not what was originally intended.
To the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your labor pains;
with pain you will give birth to children.
You will want to control your husband, but he will dominate you."
that last bit has a few varied understandings.
for example one is: that you desire will be for his position (of authority)
But the part that is clear is the curse has to do with authority struggle.
much like mans and his action to disregard God in listening to his woman.
He takes Gods authority on himself, so now he get to know what he did by having his women doing it to him.
Without submission to Gods authority we are ruled rather then blessed.
That is why you have all of the bible talking about submission, because only submission and obedience to Gods authority can be blessed. Otherwise it is the opposite of being blessed, Cursed.
I think this is how we either bless or curse our relationships.
We can build the up this way or foolishly tear them down, tear each other down.