The things butterflyyy stated to you are untrue, unsubstantiated nonsense. It didn't come about in relatively recent history as these teachings are in the early church.
Now, her and their teachings are most certainly later developments of error that crept into the church and corrupted the gospel. The teachings of choose yourself into heaven which came from the likes of Charles G. Finney and others some 150 years ago, give or take is that corrupt gospel. It is "decisional regeneration." He taught salvation is achieved just like choosing a career. That is blasphemous and against the true gospel.
Notice not one of these accusers can actually prove anything we believe to be false with proper use of Scripture? Notice their fruit? Their walk?
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@Nehemiah6 has joined their band, quoting Calvin out of context, missing what he was saying by miles, then uses out of context Scripture to bash and accuse. These people spend more time reading Calvin than any "Calvinist" I know, including this "Calvinist."
All they can do is make a few false accusations, straw man arguments, throw in some emotions, ridicule, jeer &c. When it comes down to proving anything? Well they can't which is why she doesn't want to "argue" because that excuses her from offering proof and allows her to keep making false accusations unchecked.
I will back up and own everything I say on here.
Proving herself or owning herself for agreeing I'm headed to hell is just too difficult! Instead she'll just keep making false statements because obviously that is easy for her, not difficult at all.
Remember a plant only takes up the nutrients that are according to its character, then look at what these plants feed on. I got this bit of wisdom from MLJ, "The Doctor" as they called him. A most excellent bible expositor from Wales.