Most of the people who participate in this forum say that I promote Calvinism. I do not rely on other people's interpretation of the scriptures. I believe that scripture proves scripture, and therefore, rely only on the KJV of the scriptures as my only reference. I have never read John Calvin's writings, but people have told me that he believes that every action of mankind has been predestined by God. I do not agree that the scriptures teach that. I believe the scriptures teach that God has given mankind a choice in how he wants to live his life while he sojourns here on earth, and I also believe that the scriptures teach that God chooses who he will transform from the state of being spiritually dead to being spiritually alive by exchanging a person's stony heart to a heart of flesh (Esk 36:26-27), and putting his Holy Spirit within them.
The natural man, who is spiritually dead, before he has been transformed by God, will not seek the things of the Spirit, and thinks them to be foolishness (1 Cor 2:14). He, also, will not choose to serve a spiritual God. He will not obey a spiritual God. He will not follow Jesus's teaching, because he cannot discern the things of the Spirit. He will not come to a spiritual God. He will not seek God. He will not separate himself from sinning. He will not call out to a spiritual being. He will not ask about spiritual things.
All of the choices you have listed are choices that the spiritually born again person will make, or not make. All of us, as christians, do, at times, make some very sinful choices. When we do God chastens us, and we repent, this does not mean that we have lost our eternal deliverance, but only our fellowship with God, temporarily, until we repent.