I Don't Like Men

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JamOn

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1ofthem said:
Love it!!!! Knew you would revert to the twisting....So now you're the victim, huh?....Oh, I'm so sorry for ruining your good times....Party on Man...Maybe I could post some old rock...I'm sure that'll help..:unsure:
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I’m not twisting it’s in your first post, I didn’t say a victim but since you said it, ok you turned your disapproval of what people said into a personal slander as well. you are no better anyone else who gave negative posts and yes one of them was me, so I guess I’m guilty.
 
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I’m not twisting it’s in your first post, I didn’t say a victim but since you said it, ok you turned your disapproval of what people said into a personal slander as well. you are no better anyone else who gave negative posts and yes one of them was me, so I guess I’m guilty.
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Yeah, here's the difference. I don't care what ya'll think about me and don't want in on the gang.

You took someone else's hurt and ridiculed them and had a good time out of it....So yeah, I came to throw a wrench in the party wheel....Someone is hurting, having a difficult time and came on here asking for help and ya'll ridiculed her, made a big party out of it and now when she looks at this thread all she will see is this :sick::poop:. No help, no understanding, just pure nonsense.... :rolleyes:
 
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Yeah, here's the difference. I don't care what ya'll think about me and don't want in on the gang.

You took someone else's hurt and ridiculed them and had a good time out of it....So yeah, I came to throw a wrench in the party wheel....Someone is hurting, having a difficult time and came on here asking for help and ya'll ridiculed her, made a big party out of it and now when she looks at this thread all she will see is this :sick::poop:. No help, no understanding, just pure nonsense.... :rolleyes:
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You say hurt when the OP said dislike of men, no where did the OP say they are hurting.

I heard the hurt word a few times in here, is the OP really hurting that’s anyones guess.

there are a lot of post that people gave their full sincerity into their words, the OP mulled right over them didn’t put a like or thanks for the advice. So yea I don’t think the OP gives two cents about what anybody has to say. this is vent thread and I think that is why the OP created it just to vent. not looking for real help with the issues.
 
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The OP even dogged out the moderators for not deleting the thread, like the moderators read every single post made no I don’t think so. the thread is still active because there are steps to delete a thread one can’t just type in the thread hey delete the thread and expect it to happen. to get a thread deleted one has to contact a moderator to get it deleted
 
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1ofthem said:
Love it!!!! Knew you would revert to the twisting....So now you're the victim, huh?....Oh, I'm so sorry for ruining your good times....Party on Man...Maybe I could post some old rock...I'm sure that'll help..:unsure:
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No we are just waiting for the op to come in here and pop red x's on your stuff just like she did on everyone who tried to help or defend her.
So we can laugh at you too.
 
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You say hurt when the OP said dislike of men, no where did the OP say they are hurting.

I heard the hurt word a few times in here, is the OP really hurting that’s anyones guess.

there are a lot of post that people gave their full sincerity into their words, the OP mulled right over them didn’t put a like or thanks for the advice. So yea I don’t think the OP gives two cents about what anybody has to say. this is vent thread and I think that is why the OP created it just to vent. not looking for real help with the issues.
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Save it...there is no excuse for what went down in here. You can try to justify it all you want....Like it or not, you are in the wrong here.

You and I know each other personally so I know you are going to keep twisting and trying to come up with excuses as to why what you did was ok. I'm done with that drama so save it....;)
 
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1ofthem said:
Save it...there is no excuse for what went down in here. You can try to justify it all you want....Like it or not, you are in the wrong here.

You and I know each other personally so I know you are going to keep twisting and trying to come up with excuses as to why what you did was ok. I'm done with that drama so save it....;)
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I’m not making excuse and I was wrong in my actions no doubt and I don’t need the OP to acknowledge I apologized in two post
 
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Locoponydirtman said:
No we are just waiting for the op to come in here and pop red x's on your stuff just like she did on everyone who tried to help or defend her.
So we can laugh at you too.
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LOL...If that is the worst thing I get in life is a red x on a social media site for trying to help someone...then ok....Gees life will go on....lol;)

Lighten up a little guys...a thumbs down or a red x is not the end of the world....I've tried to help people IRL, and they didn't take to it said I was stupid for believing in God and all that...I didn't turn around and start attacking them though.... just saying. We all need to chill a little.
 
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1ofthem said:
Save it...there is no excuse for what went down in here. You can try to justify it all you want....Like it or not, you are in the wrong here.

You and I know each other personally so I know you are going to keep twisting and trying to come up with excuses as to why what you did was ok. I'm done with that drama so save it....;)
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LOL...If that is the worst thing I get in life is a red x on a social media site for trying to help someone...then ok....Gees life will go on....lol;)

Lighten up a little guys...a thumbs down or a red x is not the end of the world....I've tried to help people IRL, and they didn't take to it said I was stupid for believing in God and all that...I didn't turn around and start attacking them though.... just saying. We all need to chill a little.
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I never attacked anyone
 
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Aww...I'm loving it....thanks so much for sharing. Maybe that'll help all ya'll who got one of those dreaded red x's too....:sneaky:;)

Now maybe you could post some good oldies and let's get our party back on, Let's not waste too much time on the broken hearted, Let's party....hahahaha:p:rolleyes:
 
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This is not really psychological, but in ways it is. Many people from birth get programmed to want, and admire a certain style. With this, the whole world believes that to be happy is to have a certain thing. The REAL way to be happy is to involve Christ in every single aspect of life.

Instead of holding high expectations of the apostate sex, there is always a better way to go about this. To hand it over to God, instead of leaning on your own understanding of who "men" are.

Many man, can be very wrong in their perceptions of women, as can women be towards men.

My girl has a bad thought process to where she is the woman she can get by with anything. LOL Sorry, there was absolutely no freelance on that application of love.

It takes work, and there is no need for both parties to have the "higher" hand.

I wrote this back in 2010.

Relationships should not be based upon "debating" or simply "obtaining the higher hand." Relationships are like a deck of cards, you have the queens, and kings, and jacks. Take for instance the king over turns the queen because of the level the card is. The thing is without the queen you cannot and will not make solitaire. What I am saying is each card works together instead of against each other. Every card game is not based on "war" where the upper hand is everything. There are more partnered card games then there is "war" games. So take for instance you are the queen and he is the king. Would you want a straight, or would you want war.


I guess what I am saying is this, not all men are bad. God is not bad and He is both God and Man.

God made men, and women. So therefore? We should live in unity.
 
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1ofthem said:
Aww...I'm loving it....thanks so much for sharing. Maybe that'll help all ya'll who got one of those dreaded red x's too....:sneaky:;)

Now maybe you could post some good oldies and let's get our party back on, Let's not waste too much time on the broken hearted, Let's party....hahahaha:p:rolleyes:
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Come on show me where I attacked the OP.

Telling some one to seek pro help when they need pro help is not an attack.
 
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Yeah I used to be big into those 60s and 70s acid rock and jam bands. Lol. Kind of a strange jump to blue Grass and Americana.
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I don't actually listen to what I used to listen to

in fact, much so called Christian music these days could pretty much be turned off too IMO

but that's neither here nor there ;)

yeah you made a quantum leap there
 
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Come on show me where I attacked the OP.

Telling some one to seek pro help when they need pro help is not an attack.
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Hmmmm?????? Who said you did????? Maybe that's your own conscience....Anywho....calm down, count to ten, breath deeply, and all that stuff...and don't worry it's all going to be alright....:)

Peace I'm out folks...ya'll have a good one;)
 
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1ofthem said:
Funny....I rode in here on a high horse....oops so Sorry... ya'll was just being Christ like, right?????? Ya'll have fun with the nonsense:poop: then.:rolleyes: Hate it that ya'll feel like you wasted your time. I'm glad God don't see people as a waste of time....just saying;)

Guess I won't be invited to the after party, hang out group...gees what have I done....I've went against the pack...:cautious::censored:
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you just proved yourself

don't get too close to the sun

the wax will melt :rolleyes:

Love it!!!! Knew you would revert to the twisting....So now you're the victim, huh?....Oh, I'm so sorry for ruining your good times....Party on Man...Maybe I could post some old rock...I'm sure that'll help..:unsure:
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huh

sounds like you could be compatible with the op

don't bother getting on my case also. you would be wasting your time and just illustrating more of your ability to judge without reason to do so

are you a man hater too?
 
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1ofthem said:
Funny...Ya'll ain't gotta worry about that though....:rolleyes:

Like I said before, I'm out so ya'll have a good one;)
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right

another female that I would never want to be compared with

another reason why you don't lump people together

crawled out of the wood work seems you did
 
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