I was searching for something and came across your posts and responses to them. I have to say, I am so sorry you're being berated for your faith, and mocked and attacked due to your use of wording in your posts.
If English is not your first language, and that is not meant to insult you at all, it is understandable you would not know proper grammar.
I know someone who is Thai and while they admit learning their own language grammar in school, while knowing how to speak the language as taught by family as a child, was incredibly difficult, they said learning English grammar was even worse.
Don't let yourself feel bad about that.
God knows your heart.
As to the correction you received concerning the word, without any explanation as to the correct usage, of "Affect", is of no good use. This may help you to understand. It is my hope that it does. God continue to keep your strength in His light and against all darkness that confronts you.
Affect is always a verb - Towson University
While affect is always a verb, effect is usually a noun . As a noun, effect means "theresult," "the change," or "the influence." As affect , a verb " produces a change," effect, a noun, is the"change" or "result." Example of effect usedas a noun Since effect means an"influence" in this sentence, it is the correct word to use here.