To make it less awkward for the both of you my counsel is to write her a heartfelt letter telling her how you really feel about her. Just settling for being her friend isn't going to cut it. My advice is to go for it before she gets away. You are right to pray about this too but God will not force your hand, eventually you have to decide if this is what you want, take a calculated risk, let the dice fly and the chips fall where they may. That's how I roll 'em anyway.
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As for the above Man/Woman buttons meme, it’s actually an insult to men. It’s basically saying that guy is clueless and has a one track mind. 
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She was obviously too busy with school and was a serious student. Many years later, after her GPA dropped a couple points she hooked up with some guy called Jessie and they got it on. This wasn't her first choice but she got tired of waiting for this other guy to make a move who would only say that he had to study the matter more thoroughly.
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DING!! WE'VE GOT A WINNER!!
Yep, that's what I was thinking. She's unsure about him because he's not giving her a chance to get to know him on a level where there's no pressure to jump into a relationship, which she clearly stated she wasn't ready for. NOBODY is ready for a relationship with someone they barely know. Give her some breathing space and be friendly toward her. Let her see you're an ok guy on a daily basis and not a brooding psycho. You play your cards right, she'll grow to trust you and like you. It's called pursuing.
Yep, that's what I was thinking. She's unsure about him because he's not giving her a chance to get to know him on a level where there's no pressure to jump into a relationship, which she clearly stated she wasn't ready for. NOBODY is ready for a relationship with someone they barely know. Give her some breathing space and be friendly toward her. Let her see you're an ok guy on a daily basis and not a brooding psycho. You play your cards right, she'll grow to trust you and like you. It's called pursuing.
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He said he would like to be friends with her. But that hasn't worked out. Soi t's not that he hasn't given her a chance,
A lot of people get into situations like that. People also get married to people they barely know.
They went out on two dates, but it just wasn't working out for her. So she ended it.
A lot of people get into situations like that. People also get married to people they barely know.
They went out on two dates, but it just wasn't working out for her. So she ended it.
DING!! WE'VE GOT A WINNER!!
Yep, that's what I was thinking. She's unsure about him because he's not giving her a chance to get to know him on a level where there's no pressure to jump into a relationship, which she clearly stated she wasn't ready for. NOBODY is ready for a relationship with someone they barely know. Give her some breathing space and be friendly toward her. Let her see you're an ok guy on a daily basis and not a brooding psycho. You play your cards right, she'll grow to trust you and like you. It's called pursuing.
Yep, that's what I was thinking. She's unsure about him because he's not giving her a chance to get to know him on a level where there's no pressure to jump into a relationship, which she clearly stated she wasn't ready for. NOBODY is ready for a relationship with someone they barely know. Give her some breathing space and be friendly toward her. Let her see you're an ok guy on a daily basis and not a brooding psycho. You play your cards right, she'll grow to trust you and like you. It's called pursuing.
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From my experience I would say that Christian dating verse non-Christian dating is really the same. I will offer this counsel though, don't date a woman that you would not considering possibly marrying one day, otherwise dating will most likely end up as merely as an exercise in futility. Not too many guys really date with the express purpose of becoming friends. However, once you are married your wife can and should be your best friend.
First let her know youve got mixed up feelings concerning her and your situation, to
the point of irrational doubts and misgivings. Then tell her you are so confused and
timid with regards to her that you took the problem to a public chat forum and are
currently taking dating advice from literal strangers. Do all of this after staring at her
from across the room for no less than a month and three days.
She will be overwhelmed with your honest humility, and the silent gazes will intrigue
her beyond measure.
Joking of course. Just ask her to hang out, not on a date, just spend some time with her.
Its really not difficult, she either wants to know you better ( my guess is yes ) or
she doesnt.
In the world of love ............... you either is, or you aint.
the point of irrational doubts and misgivings. Then tell her you are so confused and
timid with regards to her that you took the problem to a public chat forum and are
currently taking dating advice from literal strangers. Do all of this after staring at her
from across the room for no less than a month and three days.
She will be overwhelmed with your honest humility, and the silent gazes will intrigue
her beyond measure.
Joking of course. Just ask her to hang out, not on a date, just spend some time with her.
Its really not difficult, she either wants to know you better ( my guess is yes ) or
she doesnt.
In the world of love ............... you either is, or you aint.