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Eph 5:4 . . Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking,
which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.
"out of place" is a pretty good way to put it; sort of like a fish out of water,
viz: heavenly people are civil up there, and really ought to be down here.
The koiné Greek word for "foolish talk" is morologia (mo-rol-og-ee'-ah)
which means silliness; viz: buffoonery.
Webster's defines a buffoon as: 1) a ludicrous figure; viz: a clown, and 2) a
gross, and usually ill-educated stupid person; viz: an ignoramus. I think I
would put gross high on the list of undesirable buffoon-type behaviors. It's
okay for kids to be gross, but thoroughly unbecoming for a mature adult.
The word for "coarse joking" is eutrapelia (yoo-trap-el-ee'-ah) which means
witticism in a vulgar sense; viz: ribaldry. Double entendres would probably
fall into that category along with suggestive remarks.
The word for "thanksgiving" is eucharistia (yoo-khar-is-tee'-ah) which
means: gratitude; viz: grateful language.
You know "thank you" is not a dirty word. Christ's people should never take
the attitude that just because somebody is doing their job that they don't
deserve recognition.
One of my favorite romantic comedies is "No Reservations" starring
Catherine Zeta-Jones and Aaron Eckhart. Prior to filming, Catherine took a
job waiting tables to get a feel for working as a waitress. On several
occasions, patrons didn't even look up at her nor speak in a cordial tone
when they ordered. It struck her as remarkable that the people whom she
was serving had absolutely no inclination to even so much as acknowledge
her as a fellow human being.
A believer friend of ours once related to my wife that in the restaurant where
she worked, a church group would meet once a week. They were noisy, they
made a mess, they overstayed, and they ordered practically nothing but
coffee and tea. They never left a tip; not one time. Those churchians were
just as miserly and ungrateful as cranky old Ebenezer Scrooge in Charles
Dickens' A Christmas Story.
"We receiving a kingdom which cannot be moved, let us have grace,
whereby we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear" (Heb
12:28)
It's not uncommon for people to ask: What is grace? Well; you're likely to
hear any number of definitions; but we just listed a number of grace's
aspects: concern for the welfare of others, generosity, morals, marital
fidelity, clean speech, maturity, gratitude, and a sensible attitude towards
wealth. Those aspects easily qualify as serving God acceptably with
reverence and godly fear.
What is reverence and godly fear? Well, a rough-hewn definition is: having a
high enough opinion of God's core values to adopt them for your own and
put them into practice.
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Eph 5:4 . . Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking,
which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.
"out of place" is a pretty good way to put it; sort of like a fish out of water,
viz: heavenly people are civil up there, and really ought to be down here.
The koiné Greek word for "foolish talk" is morologia (mo-rol-og-ee'-ah)
which means silliness; viz: buffoonery.
Webster's defines a buffoon as: 1) a ludicrous figure; viz: a clown, and 2) a
gross, and usually ill-educated stupid person; viz: an ignoramus. I think I
would put gross high on the list of undesirable buffoon-type behaviors. It's
okay for kids to be gross, but thoroughly unbecoming for a mature adult.
The word for "coarse joking" is eutrapelia (yoo-trap-el-ee'-ah) which means
witticism in a vulgar sense; viz: ribaldry. Double entendres would probably
fall into that category along with suggestive remarks.
The word for "thanksgiving" is eucharistia (yoo-khar-is-tee'-ah) which
means: gratitude; viz: grateful language.
You know "thank you" is not a dirty word. Christ's people should never take
the attitude that just because somebody is doing their job that they don't
deserve recognition.
One of my favorite romantic comedies is "No Reservations" starring
Catherine Zeta-Jones and Aaron Eckhart. Prior to filming, Catherine took a
job waiting tables to get a feel for working as a waitress. On several
occasions, patrons didn't even look up at her nor speak in a cordial tone
when they ordered. It struck her as remarkable that the people whom she
was serving had absolutely no inclination to even so much as acknowledge
her as a fellow human being.
A believer friend of ours once related to my wife that in the restaurant where
she worked, a church group would meet once a week. They were noisy, they
made a mess, they overstayed, and they ordered practically nothing but
coffee and tea. They never left a tip; not one time. Those churchians were
just as miserly and ungrateful as cranky old Ebenezer Scrooge in Charles
Dickens' A Christmas Story.
"We receiving a kingdom which cannot be moved, let us have grace,
whereby we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear" (Heb
12:28)
It's not uncommon for people to ask: What is grace? Well; you're likely to
hear any number of definitions; but we just listed a number of grace's
aspects: concern for the welfare of others, generosity, morals, marital
fidelity, clean speech, maturity, gratitude, and a sensible attitude towards
wealth. Those aspects easily qualify as serving God acceptably with
reverence and godly fear.
What is reverence and godly fear? Well, a rough-hewn definition is: having a
high enough opinion of God's core values to adopt them for your own and
put them into practice.
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