We are just like family here and are interested in what is going on in each others lives. I agree that there may be speculation but I really don't believe that you have been clear as to what exactly is going on with you two. I for one would like to know as I care about you both and wish you all of God's best. Of course, I don't expect everyone to be as open as JesusLives and me during our online CC courtship and respect everyone's privacy if they chose to not talk about certain things. Some things are worth sharing though with the peeps that care about you and take a genuine interest in your life.